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"Mindfulness" Anger Management of Toxic Anger




“Mindfulness”
Anger Management Quotes
of TOXIC Anger with Wise Words

HOW One Way is to take Wise Counsel -- One immediate way is to read these wise quotes and to think about them to read them again and again and again -- agree with them fight with them all we want you to do is give some semblance of a shit about them and care -- just care for a few minutes with love and compassion that we’re doing this on behalf of you cause we care -- and expose your attention to them and Llaugh with them and cry with them and lament moan your misery and commiserate and go back again to Tupac Amaru Shakur wise words and heed them well --- THAT’S HOW !  Join a group read wise words and be strong and be kind. And above all as hanuman said: DO NO HARM.

 

Anger is the most

“impotent passion”

that accompanies

the mind of man. --Lord Clarendon

 

“Speak when you are angry

and you will make

the best speech

you will ever regret.” –Ambrose Bierce

 

Anger

Quotes and Affirmations

 

Its time we stop worrying, and get angry.  But not angry and pick up a gun angry, but angry and open our mind angrys.

 

Speak when you are angry and you will make the best speech you will ever regret.

–Ambrose Bierce

 

If you do not wish to be prone to anger, do not feed the habit, give it nothing which may tend to its increase.

–Epictetus

 

Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one getting burned.

–Buddha

 

Anger is a wind which blows out the lamp of the mind.

–Robert Ingersoll

 

Doc Childre and Howard Martin, HeartMath Solution

Physiologically, it simply doesn’t matter

whether your anger is justified or not.

The body doesn’t make moral judgements
about feelings; it just responds.

 

Resentment,

anger, frustration, worry, disappointment —

negative emotional states, justified or not,

take a toll on your heart, brain and body.

Don’t let “justified emotions”

rob your health and well-being.

 

Leo Buscaglia

Don’t hold to anger, hurt or pain. They steal your energy and keep you from love.

 

Booker T. Washington

I will permit no man to narrow and degrade my soul by making me hate him.

 

Helen Douglas

Character isn’t inherited. One builds it daily by the way one thinks and acts, thought by thought, action by action. If one lets fear or hate or anger take possession of the mind, they become self-forged chains.

 

HW Longfellow

If we could read the secret history of our enemies, we should find in each man’s life sorrow and suffering enough to disarm any hostility.

 

Marcus Aurelius

How much more grievous are the consequences of anger than the causes of it.

 

John Dryden

Beware of the fury

of the patient man.

 

Unknown

Sticks and stones may break your bones when there’s anger to impart. Spiteful words can hurt your feelings but silence breaks your heart.

 

Lord Halifax

Anger is seldom without an argument, but seldom with a good one.

 

Unknown

Anger is as a stone cast into a wasp’s nest.

 

Chuck Norris

Men are like steel: when they lose their temper, they lose their worth.

 

Tryon Edwards

To rule one’s anger is well; to prevent it is still better.

 

Marcus Antonius

Consider how much more you suffer from your anger and grief, than from those very things for which you are angry and grieved.

 

Cato

Observe: An angry man opens his mouth and shuts up his eyes.

 

W. R. Alger

Men often make up in wrath what they want in reason.

 

Golda Meir

You cannot shake hands with a clenched fist.

 

St. Francis De Sales

There was never an angry man that thought his anger unjust.

 

Chinese Proverb

If you are patient in one moment of anger, you will escape a hundred days of sorrow.

 

Shakespeare

Men in rage strike those that wish them best.

 

Elizabeth Kenny

He who angers you conquers you.

 

Greek

Those who the Gods would destroy -- First, they would make angry

 

Willard Gaylin

Expressing anger is a form of public littering.

 

Henry Beecher

Never forget what a man says to you when he is angry.

 

Tamil proverb

Great anger is more destructive than the sword.

 

Pythagoras

Anger begins with folly and ends with repentance.

 

Pasquier Quesnel

Anger causes us to condemn in one what we approve in another.

 

Alfred Montapert

Every time you get angry, you poison your own system.

 

Thomas Fuller

Two things a man should never be angry at: what he can help, and what he cannot help.

 

Clarendon

Anger is the most  “impotent passion” that accompanies the mind of man. Anger effects nothing it goes on about; and hurts the man who is possessed by it more than against whom it is directed.

 

Jefferson

When angry, count ten before you speak; if very angry, a hundred.

 

Thomas a Kempis

Be not angry that you cannot make others as you wish them to be, since you cannot make yourself as you wish to be.

 

Proverbs 14:17a

He that is soon angry, will deal’eth foolishly…

 

Benjamin Franklin

Whatever is begun in anger ends in shame.

 

Seneca

He is a fool who cannot be angry; but he is a wise man who will not.

 

 

Ralph Waldo Emerson

A man makes inferiors his superiors by heat; self control is the rule.

Anger is an uncontrollable feeling-- that betrays what you are when you are not yourself.

Anger is that powerful internal force-- that blows out the light of reason.

Know this to be the enemy: it is anger, born of desire.

 

 

Dr. Robert Anthony

The angry people are those people who are most afraid.

 

Horace

Anger is a momentary madness, so control your passion or it will control you.

 

Walter S. Landor

The flame of anger, bright and brief, sharpens the barb of love.

 

George Jean Nathan

No man can think clearly when his fist are clenched.

 

Frederick Buechner

Of the Seven Deadly Sins, anger is possibly the most fun. To lick your wounds, to smack your lips over grievances long past, to roll over your tongue the prospect of bitter confrontations still to come, to savor to the last toothsome morsel both the pain you are given and the pain you are giving back–in many ways it is a feast fit for a king. The chief drawback is that what you are wolfing down is yourself. The skeleton at the feast is you.

 

 

William Blake A Poison Tree

I was angry with my friend

I told my wrath, my wrath did end.

I was angry with my foe:

I told it not, my wrath did grow.

 

 

If a small thing has the power to make you angry, does that not indicate something about your size? ~Sydney J. Harris

 

There is nothing more galling to angry people than the coolness of those on whom they wish to vent their spleen. ~Alexandre Dumas

 

He who angers you conquers you. ~Elizabeth Kenny

 

For every minute you are angry, you lose sixty seconds of happiness. ~Author Unknown

 

‘Anger’

is one letter

short of ‘------ danger. ~Author Unknown

 

Anger ventilated often hurries toward forgiveness --and anger concealed often hardens into revenge. ~Edward G. Bulwer-Lytton

 

People who fly into a rage always make a bad landing. ~Will Rogers

 

Never write a letter while you are angry. ~Chinese Proverb

 

Never go to bed mad. Stay up and fight. ~Phyllis Diller, Phyllis Diller’s Housekeeping Hints, 1966

 

Resentment is like taking poison and waiting for the other person to die. ~Malachy McCourt

 

 

Anger as soon as fed is dead -

‘Tis starving makes it fat. Frederick Buechner

Of the Seven Deadly Sins, anger is possibly the most fun. To lick your wounds, to smack your lips over grievances long past, to roll over your tongue the prospect of bitter confrontations still to come, to savor to the last toothsome morsel both the pain you are given and the pain you are giving back–in many ways it is a feast fit for a king. The chief drawback is that what you are wolfing down is yourself. The skeleton at the feast is you.

 

~Emily Dickinson

 

 

If you kick a stone in anger, you’ll hurt your own foot. ~Korean Proverb

 

Not the fastest horse can catch a word spoken in anger. ~Chinese Proverb

 

Anger dwells only in the bosom of fools. ~Albert Einstein

 

Anger is momentary madness, so control your passion or it will control you. ~Horace, Epistles

 

If you’re angry at a loved one, hug that person. And mean it. You may not want to hug – which is all the more reason to do so. It’s hard to stay angry when someone shows they love you, and that’s precisely what happens when we hug each other. ~Walter Anderson, The Confidence Course, 1997

Always write angry letters to your enemies. Never mail them. ~James Fallows

 

I don’t have to attend

every argument I’m invited to. ~Author Unknown

 

Malice drinks one-half of its own poison. ~Seneca

 

Anger is a killing thing --

it kills the man who angers,

for each rage leaves him less

than he had been before –

it takes something from him. ~Louis L’Armour

 

 

Never strike your wife – even with a flower. ~Hindu Proverb

 

Anger is a bad counselor. ~French Proverb

 

Resentment is an extremely bitter diet, and eventually poisonous. I have no desire to make my own toxins. ~Neil Kinnock

 

To carry

a life-long grudge
is like being stung to death

by one single bee. ~William H. Walton

 

 

The best remedy

for a short temper

 is a long walk. ~Jacqueline Schiff

 

 

 

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Anger as soon as fed is dead -

It’s starving makes it fat.

Of the Seven Deadly Sins,

Anger is possibly the most fun.

To lick your wounds, to smack

your lips over grievances

long past, to roll over

your tongue the prospect

of bitter confrontations

still to come, to savor

to the last toothsome

morsel both the pain

you are given and

the pain you are giving back

–in many ways it is

a feast fit for a king.

The chief drawback is

that what you are

wolfing down is yourself.

The skeleton at the feast is you.

 

~Emily Dickinson

 

 

 

 

 













ANGER --  "Mindfulness-Anger" -- Management of Anger

Anger is the most
“impotent passion”
that accompanies
the mind of man. --Lord Clarendon

“Speak when you are angry
and you will m
the best speech
you will ever regret.” –Ambrose Bierce


Its time we stop worrying, and get angry.  But not angry and pick up a gun angry, but angry and open our mind angrys.

–Tupac Amaru Shakur

Speak when you are angry and you will make the best speech you will ever regret.

–Ambrose Bierce
 
If you do not wish to be prone to anger, do not feed the habit, give it nothing which may tend to its increase.

–Epictetus

Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one getting burned.

–Buddha

Anger is a wind which blows out the lamp of the mind.

–Robert Ingersoll

Doc Childre and Howard Martin, HeartMath Solution

Physiologically, it simply doesn’t matter
whether your anger is justified or not.

The body doesn’t make moral judgements
about feelings; it just responds.

Resentment,
anger, frustration, worry, disappointment —
negative emotional states, justified or not,
take a toll on your heart, brain and body.
Don’t let “justified emotions”
rob your health and well-being.

Leo Buscaglia

Don’t hold to anger, hurt or pain. They steal your energy and keep you from love.

Booker T. Washington

I will permit no man to narrow and degrade my soul by making me hate him.

 

Helen Douglas

Character isn’t inherited. One builds it daily by the way one thinks and acts, thought by thought, action by action. If one lets fear or hate or anger take possession of the mind, they become self-forged chains.

 

HW Longfellow

If we could read the secret history of our enemies, we should find in each man’s life sorrow and suffering enough to disarm any hostility.

 

Marcus Aurelius

How much more grievous are the consequences of anger than the causes of it.

 

John Dryden

Beware of the fury

of the patient man.

 

Unknown

Sticks and stones may break your bones when there’s anger to impart. Spiteful words can hurt your feelings but silence breaks your heart.

 

Lord Halifax

Anger is seldom without an argument, but seldom with a good one.

 

Unknown

Anger is as a stone cast into a wasp’s nest.

 

Chuck Norris

Men are like steel: when they lose their temper, they lose their worth.

 

Tryon Edwards

To rule one’s anger is well; to prevent it is still better.

 

Marcus Antonius

Consider how much more you suffer from your anger and grief, than from those very things for which you are angry and grieved.

 

Cato

Observe: An angry man opens his mouth and shuts up his eyes.

 

W. R. Alger

Men often make up in wrath what they want in reason.

 

Golda Meir

You cannot shake hands with a clenched fist.

 

St. Francis De Sales

There was never an angry man that thought his anger unjust.

 

Chinese Proverb

If you are patient in one moment of anger, you will escape a hundred days of sorrow.

 

Shakespeare

Men in rage strike those that wish them best.

 

Elizabeth Kenny

He who angers you conquers you.

 

Greek

Those who the Gods would destroy -- First, they would make angry

 

Willard Gaylin

Expressing anger is a form of public littering.

 

Henry Beecher

Never forget what a man says to you when he is angry.

 

Tamil proverb

Great anger is more destructive than the sword.

 

Pythagoras

Anger begins with folly and ends with repentance.

 

Pasquier Quesnel

Anger causes us to condemn in one what we approve in another.

 

Alfred Montapert

Every time you get angry, you poison your own system.

 

Thomas Fuller

Two things a man should never be angry at: what he can help, and what he cannot help.

 

Clarendon

Anger is the most  “impotent passion” that accompanies the mind of man. Anger effects nothing it goes on about; and hurts the man who is possessed by it more than against whom it is directed.

 

Jefferson

When angry, count ten before you speak; if very angry, a hundred.

 

Thomas a Kempis

Be not angry that you cannot make others as you wish them to be, since you cannot make yourself as you wish to be.

 

Proverbs 14:17a

He that is soon angry, will deal’eth foolishly…

 

Benjamin Franklin

Whatever is begun in anger ends in shame.

 

Seneca

He is a fool who cannot be angry; but he is a wise man who will not.

 

Ralph Waldo Emerson

A man makes inferiors his superiors by heat; self control is the rule.

Anger is an uncontrollable feeling-- that betrays what you are when you are not yourself.

Anger is that powerful internal force-- that blows out the light of reason.

Know this to be the enemy: it is anger, born of desire.

 

Dr. Robert Anthony

The angry people are those people who are most afraid.

 

Horace

Anger is a momentary madness, so control your passion or it will control you.

 

Walter S. Landor

The flame of anger, bright and brief, sharpens the barb of love.

 

George Jean Nathan

No man can think clearly when his fist are clenched.

 

Frederick Buechner

Of the Seven Deadly Sins, anger is possibly the most fun. To lick your wounds, to smack your lips over grievances long past, to roll over your tongue the prospect of bitter confrontations still to come, to savor to the last toothsome morsel both the pain you are given and the pain you are giving back–in many ways it is a feast fit for a king. The chief drawback is that what you are wolfing down is yourself. The skeleton at the feast is you.

 

 

William Blake A Poison Tree

I was angry with my friend

I told my wrath, my wrath did end.

I was angry with my foe:

I told it not, my wrath did grow.

 

 

If a small thing has the power to make you angry, does that not indicate something about your size? ~Sydney J. Harris

 

There is nothing more galling to angry people than the coolness of those on whom they wish to vent their spleen. ~Alexandre Dumas

 

He who angers you conquers you. ~Elizabeth Kenny

 

For every minute you are angry, you lose sixty seconds of happiness. ~Author Unknown

 

 

‘Anger’

is one letter

short of ‘------ danger. ~Author Unknown

 

 

 

Anger ventilated often hurries toward forgiveness --and anger concealed often hardens into revenge. ~Edward G. Bulwer-Lytton

 

People who fly into a rage always make a bad landing. ~Will Rogers

 

Never write a letter while you are angry. ~Chinese Proverb

 

Never go to bed mad. Stay up and fight. ~Phyllis Diller, Phyllis Diller’s Housekeeping Hints, 1966

 

Resentment is like taking poison and waiting for the other person to die. ~Malachy McCourt

 

 

Anger as soon as fed is dead -

‘Tis starving makes it fat.

~Emily Dickinson

 

 

If you kick a stone in anger, you’ll hurt your own foot. ~Korean Proverb

 

Not the fastest horse can catch a word spoken in anger. ~Chinese Proverb

 

Anger dwells only in the bosom of fools. ~Albert Einstein

 

Anger is momentary madness, so control your passion or it will control you. ~Horace, Epistles

 

If you’re angry at a loved one, hug that person. And mean it. You may not want to hug – which is all the more reason to do so. It’s hard to stay angry when someone shows they love you, and that’s precisely what happens when we hug each other. ~Walter Anderson, The Confidence Course, 1997

Always write angry letters to your enemies. Never mail them. ~James Fallows

 

I don’t have to attend

every argument I’m invited to. ~Author Unknown

 

Malice drinks one-half of its own poison. ~Seneca

 

Anger is a killing thing --

it kills the man who angers,

for each rage leaves him less

than he had been before –

it takes something from him. ~Louis L’Armour

 

 

Never strike your wife – even with a flower. ~Hindu Proverb

 

Anger is a bad counselor. ~French Proverb

 

Resentment is an extremely bitter diet, and eventually poisonous. I have no desire to make my own toxins. ~Neil Kinnock

 

 

To carry

a life-long grudge
is like being stung to death

by one single bee. ~William H. Walton

 

 

The best remedy

for a short temper

 is a long walk. ~Jacqueline Schiff

 

 

 

 

 
Mindfulness"  Anger Management of  Toxic Anger