PAGES TO GET DOWN INTO. . .
MARCH 2016
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"If we have no peace,
it is because we have forgotten
that we belong to each other." ~ Mother Teresa
"You yourself,
as much as anyone in the entire Universe,
deserves your OWN affection, care and love.
You can explore the whole universe looking
for someone who is more deserving of your
love and affection than you are yourself...
and you will not find that person anywhere.
To be maximum effective -
the Practice of Loving-Kindness
must absolutely begin with yourself!" ~ The Buddha
_the Practice of Loving-Kindness_______________________________________
What’s In The Box ?
What’s In The Box ?
BUDDHIST
COUNSELING SESSIONS and
MINDFULNESS
PRACTICE as a THERAPY
•
INDIVIDUAL PERSONAL Therapy
•
RELATIONSHIP Counseling
Santa
Monica CA 90405 ~ 310-450-2268
A New York Jewish Therapist
Living In California
Is What I Always Wanted To
Be,
What I Always Wanted To Do
--
But ‘Reasons’ Intervened,
So Since I Didn’t,
Since I Couldn’t ~
I Became This !
Which
One ?
A New York Jewish Therapist:
What I Always Wanted To Be,
But Since I Didn’t, I Became
This !
• I’m a ONE MAN SHOP ~
Always have been.
I
Counsel both Adult Women and Puer Men In
One-to-One Individual
Therapy sessions
Buddhist
Counseling sessions and
Mindfulness
Practice as a Therapy
Buddhist
Dharma Life-Coaching
• Individual Personal
Therapy
• Relationship Counseling for
Couples,
Partnering issues,
and Self-Identity issues.
Verbal,
inter-active, face to face,
very
personal, kind and caring
as
well as ‘tough-love’ - and
appropriate
directive ‘tasks’
and
even homework - in clear,
hopefully
effective sessions.
“Relationships”
can be difficult.
Period.
Everyone knows that.
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Brief Profiles: Meditation
-:¦:-
The LAUGHING
BUDDHA SANGHA - guided by AKASA LEVI, a former ordained American Buddhist
forest monk who lived many years in rural Asia. Akasa coaches a small,
salon-sized Satsang sitting group for Buddhist Mindfulness meditation with
practice discussion and Dharma theory study. Now a feisty 75, this eccentric,
really funny ole' Dharma-mentor teaches at his little meditation shrine room
filled with statues of the Buddha. He invites anyone actively practicing an
'awareness meditation' to come sit. Beginners very welcome.
Brief Profiles: Teacher
-:¦:-
The SPIRITUAL ADULTHOOD PROJECT ♦
The
LAUGHING BUDDHA SANGHA ♦ guided by
AKASA LEVI - a U.S.military Vet and former ordained American Buddhist forest
monk • who lived many years in rural Asia - to be with the LAST LIVING BUDDHIST
TEACHERS of the PRE-GLOBAL ERA, most passed on now • Akasa is a feisty 75 - an
adorable authentic genuine curmudgeon • Odd, a really funny, eccentric old man
of the Dharma, a respected BuJu Tribal Elder • Advaita yogi, rogue academic
mentor into nourishing a maverick, iconoclast intelligence in the people he
treats, teaches, counsels or coaches at his little meditation shrine room in
his garage • Filled with statues of the ancient Buddha, he also practices in
the scientific secular spirit of contemporary Mindfulness meditation as well •
Truly an acquired taste like Thai shrimp paste, Akasa is known for his
spontaneity, ready warmth, and wry unpredictable humor • Please VISIT the
Expanded BIG BIO PROFILE at the TABLE of CONTENTS. Read Part One of The Making Of . . .
Brief Profiles: Counseling
Therapy
-:¦:-
The Spiritual Adulthood Project ~ is
where I can offer Buddhist based 'Alternative' approaches to relating with Your
True Core Self • One-to-One Individual therapy • Relationship and Partnering
issues • Difficult to communicate feelings • Disheartened anxious insecure
Wounded Spirit • Therapy for "Non-Ordinary", "Uncommon
People" • 'Rebels' 'Creatives' 'Sensitives' cerebral verbal artistic
gifted ~ and Unhappy people • "Mindfulness" really works to cultivate a calm, kind, wise, spacious, fearless
"Big Good-Hearted Mind".
INSTRUCTIONS # 5 Reading Out Loud
If
you graze these pages and scroll n' roll around in this site -
follow
some of it along - ponder a bit down a very articulate path -
then
some words catch your eye - an image of a feeling from
a
different time from now - as you breathe and sit immobile,
your
body a pleasant mass of soft meditative sensation -
you
space out to go in, as you invite a sweet mild trance
to
embrace you - remembering your ‘mindfulness’ by
wiggling
your toes that invoke flocks of feeling images
within
you flow, breathe the silence, settle down gently
into
open space way out in between the words - the
sounds
of silence, the sensations of feeling, observe
the
images but don’t touch, just watch reflect ponder
contemplate
but don’t stay to long as Knowing
appears
all by itself . . .
What
is the True Nature of Life ?
“Never gave it a thought”
Sure
you have….
________________
Besides
the illuminating inspiring little readings on this site, and besides the details
in this site pertaining to your possible being here at some time - there's a
lot of short snippets of good poetry and pithy phrases in here to inspire and
uplift you - and go for rides in your iPhone - so please go sit still somewhere,
breathe, slow down, breathe, listen to the silence, breathe, notice the
incredible naturalness of everything, and intelligently nourish your Spirit
also….
________________________
“And
then the day came
when
the risk to remain
tight
in a bud
was
more painful
than
the risk
it
took to blossom” ~ Anais Nin
_______________________________
Maybe you're an UNCOMMON
PERSON ....
The “Uncommon Person” / “The
Non-Ordinary Person”
Already Feels Different -- in a
Very Non-Assimilate-able Way.
Many
people really do, but for the truly 'uncommon one'
it's
sort of a double-whammy to carry!"
~ Abraham Maslow
• UNHAPPY 'UNCOMMON' PEOPLE are by their nature sensitive, creative,
genius, silent, smart, goofy, individualistic, righteously impatient yet newly
empathic, higher-consciousness oriented people gaining ground with sacred Grace
- artistic, intellectual, autistically techy, stylishly awkward, mystical,
musical, poetic, and certainly can be real spiritual or real ugly like the rest
of us can be.
•
So you’d probably need an authentic 'Non-traditional
Therapist' who understands “non-mainstream”, non-Matrix lifestyles -- and who
is deeply empathic and genuinely understands ‘uncommon' and ‘unusual’ or
‘non-ordinary’ people - who are quite unique or gifted, yet unhappy
people.
•
You may be a very 'individual' person
who feels very naturally inward, spiritual oriented - and yet you're struggling
to get ‘worldly’ problems/emotional issues handled realistically and with
integrity as well -- yet without you having to commit to any spiritual path
whatsoever.
•
As a contemporary Healer of sorts - of the unsure Mind and of the broken Heart.
Yet I offer NO promises or religious
prescriptions - not even some evangelical dogma drama. I offer ‘Nothing’ to ‘Believe’ in. That’s
a Buddhist pun. ‘Nothing’ - just
the emergence of your own individual ‘true knowing’ and personal excellence. I
want to assist you in discovering a 'natural unfolding' of unshakable balance,
boundless wisdom and joy. And your innate good humor - Liberating a new sense
of caring and connectedness with yourself, other people and the universe. An
expanded inner acceptance and outer effectiveness.
‘RAW QUALITIES OF GOOD BEING’ We All Have
•
Yet still, us Unhappy 'Uncommon' folk hold a small but rapidly growing niche
market in the “developing consciousness” industry - so we're not exactly the
ordinary 'Retail' majority. In all kindness to Target shoppers, the masses are still
buying into it, buying it, bought-in, still living on the bought on credit larger
grid - what the Dalai Lama calls The Suffering Consumer - "Consumers"
- people strongly subject to the lures and addictive pulls of Desire and
Attachment, by indulgence or necessity. Capitalism totally depends on them.
“Mindfulness teaches us to let them go and stress less. Notice how many Zen
Zafu meditation cushions and Yoga mats are being sold lately. . .
•
You, by the way, are innately blessed with the precious ‘raw qualities of good being’ that you may unknowingly DO possess
and host. And probably don’t know it or the depths of it. That is an under-developed area of repair work we
will be actively working on. Fortunately, the whole world really is watching (
and that's a huge form of 'participation' also, please don't discount it ) There’s
good people out there. There is a genuine Waking-up happening. More so soon
than ever. Now we are all globally touched by it. The social media is re-birthing
newly minted curious cyber babies into what is hopefully an ever-constant,
continuing, community ‘conversation’ that is now visibly, audibly out of the
Dark and on a wobbling enlightenment course, fumbling into the Light -- and you
and me with it, on some level or other.
•
Today,the young beouiois swar Millennials
are an obsession-prone, precarious, precious pool of new human resource for
training and cultivating sincerely talented, novice ’Bodhisattva’ compassion-energy,
ready for downloading and absorbing some of the planet’s most ancient wisdom ways
towards fulfilling non-conditional ( unconditional ) happiness. The Boomers are
busy modeling for the Gen X ,,,and my father’s Depression and anything earlier than
1950 is as they say, History. Americans are historically illiterate anyway,
and the Millennials have no practical motivation to reference what came before
them. That leaves me at the beginning of the end of it all. I’m old. My
students are 27, I’m 75. The first to go. leaves me at te end of it all. I’m next to go.
settled in, Millennials,
some of them are filled with such compassionate energy, idealistic intensity,
and a grounded integrity focused on their 'Causes'. Their sincerity
is adding to the cyber technology with their own Loving-kindness potential. “Good
goods, these kids got…” my Uncle Max would say
• Bless ALL The Arts and it's myriad Lovers -- yes,
we're still here as Angelic Trouble-makers - the Activists, Radicals,
Progressives, the Lefties and the Movement people. They 'usta call us Avant
Garde, and that's a heavy mantle to carry - seriously - without a clearly
defined, yet natural "identity" in hand that's authentically Real at
the same time. One major difficulty is if I'm psychologically disfigured,
disoriented in some way, I can't really see the deeper happiness potential
right there in myself and others, especially if the damage is still semi
suppressed and not well Life-managed or Self-regulated -- or Happy.
"
You need to find out What, Why and Who you are. And are not. And then put that all
aside." said Dr. Jung _________________________________
“NOTHING” -
Even
tho’, as a contemporary Healer of sorts -
of
the unsure Mind and of the broken Heart -
Yet I offer NO promises or
religious prescriptions -
‘Nothing’ - I offer
‘Nothing’ to ‘Believe’ in.
That’s a Buddhist pun - that
opens a whole
other discussion doorway. ‘Nothing’ -
just the emergence of your own individual
‘true
knowing’ and personal excellence.
__________________________________
-:¦:- The LAUGHING BUDDHA SANGHA - guided by AKASA LEVI, a former ordained American Buddhist forest monk who lived many years in rural Asia. Akasa coaches a small, salon-sized Satsang sitting group for Buddhist Mindfulness meditation with practice discussion and Dharma theory study. Now a feisty 75, this eccentric, really funny ole' Dharma-mentor teaches at his little meditation shrine room filled with statues of the Buddha. He invites anyone actively practicing an 'awareness meditation' to come sit. Beginners very welcome.
" THE GREATEST RISK IS NOT TAKING ONE! "
-:¦:- The Buddhist Mindfulness meditation with practice discussion and Dharma theory study. Now a feisty 75, this eccentric, really funny ole' Dharma-mentor teaches at his little meditation shrine room filled with statues of the Buddha. He invites anyone actively practicing an 'awareness meditation' to come sit. Beginners very welcome.
• I’m a ONE MAN SHOP ~
Always have been.
I
Counsel both Adult Women and Men In
One-to-One Individual
Therapy sessions
Buddhist
Counseling sessions and
Mindfulness
Practice as a Therapy
Buddhist
Dharma Life-Coaching
• Individual Personal
Therapy
• Relationship Counseling for
Couples,
Partnering issues,
Gender
and Identity issues.
Verbal,
inter-active, face to face,
very
personal, kind and caring
as
well as ‘tough-love’ - and
appropriate
directive ‘tasks’
and
even homework - in clear,
hopefully
effective sessions.
“Relationships”
can be difficult.
Period.
Everyone knows that.
•
These counseling and therapy sessions have a strong Buddhist informed theoretical base, as well as good Western
modalities like psycho-dynamic analysis and CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy )
spinoffs. I use “Mindfulness” approaches to approach the highly dissatisfied
mind, discomforted feelings, and disruptive emotions while they’re in
’process’. Later on you’re most welcome to move on to group meditation and
sharing sessions if you wish, as your tolerances’ get more fit.
•
At “Spiritual Adulthood” we offer a uniquely combined counseling an innovative,
holistic, Asian-based ‘spiritual variation' of therapy grounded in pragmatic,
practical Buddhist psychology. Created for intelligent people - sensitive
people - creative people - odd, uncommon unhappy people…
“NOTHING” -
Even
tho’, as a contemporary Healer of sorts -
of
the unsure Mind and of the broken Heart -
Yet I offer NO promises or
religious prescriptions -
‘Nothing’ - I offer
‘Nothing’ to ‘Believe’ in.
That’s a Buddhist pun - that
opens a whole
other discussion doorway. ‘Nothing’ -
just the emergence of your own individual
‘true
knowing’ and personal excellence.
______________________________
I practice as a Buddhist minister / pastoral counselor, not as a licensed MFT or
PhD clinical psychologist. I take in a much broader cultural scope than just
the psychological. I have to address the sociology / anthropology of it all - What got it to be this way ? The cultivation of a very contemporary
metaphysical Spirit in this difficult modern media-driven society we live in,
is a necessity. What will that look like
?
•
Re-educating your Spirit
also, gives your Spirits a chance to be a wider, stronger, well informed
inner-platform and inner-space to work with. ‘Realistically’ or
‘Meta-physically’. Both are the supreme, indigenous creations of cultures based
in one local regional area or another to work on their Healing Arts organically
and renovate YOU with many millennia worth of Spirit-treasure - on indigenously
-undisturbed in a limited cultural isolation. Hey traded for medicinals and
leaves for tools and textiles in small hamlets if there was a road in… only
symbolic. Good spiritual TV.
•
At “Spiritual Adulthood” we offer a uniquely combined counseling an innovative,
holistic, Asian-based ‘spiritual variation' of therapy grounded in pragmatic,
practical Buddhist psychology. Created for intelligent people - sensitive
people - creative people - odd, uncommon unhappy people…
You may want to talk with someone - like me - someone
who has training in both worlds: psychology AND spirituality.
• This is not a traditional
Western licensed clinical psychotherapy --
nor is it 'Religious'. ‘Religious’ suggests it’s
being done on their clock, on their time. ‘Spiritual’ suggests it is happening
on your time internally, individually, it’s all about you -- It is 'Spiritual',
which takes in everything ‘sacred’ human culture and benevolent well
intentioned thought has ever created.
• What is it ? This form of counseling therapy can be called
many things --
Spiritual-based
Counseling • Psycho/Spiritual Therapy • Spiritual Direction •
Spiritual-oriented Life Coaching • Medicine men and women • Tribal Shaman’s
work and practitioners in the Healing Arts the world over. The Good Ones doing
good healing practices • It's been going on effectively for 1000's of years ...
•
‘True’ Happiness is totally ( well, almost totally ) taught as being independent
and free of the unavoidable effects of ‘everyday’ circumstances, conditions and
compromises - really 'true liberated freedom' as they've spoken about in Asian
teachings for millennia. ‘Un-True’ Happiness isn’t a Freedom inside us, it’s
bound to erroneous stuff by shackled conditions. And we obsessively worry it
all the time.
Talk with someone who has training in
both worlds: psychology AND spirituality !
" THE GREATEST RISK IS NOT TAKING ONE! "
These
are counseling and therapy sessions with a strong Buddhist informed theoretical
base, as well as good Western modalities like psycho-dynamic analysis and CBT (
cognitive-behavioral therapy ) spinoffs. I use “Mindfulness” approaches to
approach the highly dissatisfied mind, discomforted feelings, and disruptive
emotions right in their ’process’. Later on you’re most welcome to move on to
group meditation and sharing sessions if you wish, as your ‘tolerances’ get
more fit.
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PLEASE NOTE ~
A Few House Responsibilities
- Here’s the Deal…
Dear
Gals or Guys ~ Glad You’re Here !
And I gotta’ be sorta
strict-ish about your own life-plan arrangements affecting your even being
here, work
time and drive time kvetching, money issues, and other important ‘engine
maintenance’ responsibilities - all so we have the way more clear - we have the
freedom to actually ‘Work’ the session - and not get too caught up and fuss
around with the logistics of Details -- unless of course this is a part of the
way you roll…
•
ALL counseling sessions are all 'Live' counseling visits at my little ‘Shrine’.
I don’t do house calls. No Skype. My steady counseling clients are limited to
our immediate local area - so you can be on time and I can run a tight little old
guy’s ship. Thank you for hearing this ~ really.
• PHONE COUNSELING-sessions will probably happen later
on, here and there - but only when
necessary for 'established clients' with me.
• I can gladly offer you a
First-Time FREE phone consultation to local Los Angeles area inquirers. 1-310-450-2268. I will certainly need
to talk with you on the phone first. There is no first free session. It's all
about developing a solid, sound 'ground' of genuine communication -- and what
it is to be a responsible client.
• Please ASK ME PLENTY of
QUESTIONS, Difficult
Questions, and really feel into if "Spiritual Adulthood" sessions
might be helpful for you --
• FEE: Ongoing regular
steady sessions are by a mutually arranged fee, date and time by appointment only.
• I can offer AFFORDABLE NEGOTIABLE sliding
scale lower fee sessions for those who
really need it. I am not greedy. I do not take insurance coverage,
health plans or Medicare, Obama Care, HMOs etc. I do not accept any electronic
plastic as a payment means - only cash of check. I must charge full going fee
For A First Time Visit. I can discuss sliding scales after that.
• I usually offer a much
more generous EXTENDED SESSION-TIME than is usual... Most sessions are given much more than the
standard therapy-hour's time (:55 min ). We offer you sessions usually about
one hour+20 min (:80 min) to allow plenty of time to go really deep as you need
to during your session that particular day... without feeling cut off or
hurried out the door..
• A FIRST-TIME PHONE INQUIRY
( FREE ) is
always good to have with you - and much more immediate for me to respond to you, if you briefly
write down your issues and some feelings before you call me. Please do not
email instead, the live voice is so important to hear --- ( ambivalent emails
back and forth really does not work well at all ) Please simply PHONE ME - and that may take courage on your part,
but ‘courage’ is what we will also be working on… we'd need to talk 'Live'
first - if you sincerely wish to inquire further.
• BEST PHONE TIMES for
reaching me on any particular day:
NOON to 6 PM weekdays --
usually Tuesday thru Thursday.
Usually
6:00 pm being the last client of the day.
Friday
as a reschedule day or as a spill-over day.
These
are the best guidelines to try’n reach me --
1-310-450-2268.
Then again, TRY 10 minutes
before the hour.
•
And I just may be in session when you call.
LEAVE A MESSAGE + phone number + email.
When
can you best be reached.
That’s
what this is basically about at core -
Becoming Reachable.
‘How can I reach you ?’ --
and
please speak very slowly and clearly.
It
is important that you’re going try your best
to
make yourself ‘accessible’ -- so I can reach you
--
and you can reach us -- and best, you can 'reach' yourself.
Buddha
Learned
How
to Become
an
Easy to Reach Person.
No
barriers, No protection.
Nothing
to protect.
Actually,
there was no Buddha.
•
We can possibly refer you to
qualified Buddhist counselors
or
therapists in your own local or regional area if you email me.
Again… "The Greatest Risk Is Not Taking One"
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WHAT
CONTINUES to FOLLOW is going to take some more reading time - and
some more patience on your part to read and
sort yourself thru.
You do not have to read it all at once - Read
at your leisure.
TAKE IT IN SMALL BITES, GRAZE, SCROLL and SKIP
AROUND IN IT --
YOU'LL
CERTAINLY KNOW A LOT MORE about what you need
when you're done reading some/all of this ...
hang in there
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BE
COURAGEOUS !
"
As human beings, our greatness lies
not so much in being able to remake the
world...
as a being able to remake ourselves.
WE must become the changes
we want to see in the world " ~ Gandhi
" You began as a Creation, now become a
Creator.
Never wait at a barrier " ~ Rumi
" The limits of the possible can only be
defined
by going beyond them into the
impossible." ~ Arthur C. Clarke
“
Good, but impossible resolutions, are simply checks
that men draw on a bank where they have no
account.
Start with the eminently 'possible'. ~ Oscar
Wilde
" While one person hesitates
because they feel insecure and inferior,
the other is busy making mistakes aplenty
and becoming quite superior." ~ The Tao
“DESTINY”
is every step we’re taking
and going thru right now to get there.”
~
Grandfather Bearheart, Creek elder
"
There is no such thing as a 'problem'
without a 'gift' for you in its hands.
Sometimes you have problems
because you need their gifts.
It is through gifts that you grow." ~
Richard Bach
THE
‘PROBLEM’
“ BRING YOU LIFE BACK
FROM THE 'EXILE' OF YOUR SPIRIT
and INTO A SACRED BALANCE AGAIN ! “ ~ Poet
Laureate Robert Bly
•
WHATEVER IT IS, YOU'RE "A-NOT-SO-HAPPY-PERSON"
Many, many folks aren’t. We're in very
agitated, anxious, turbulent, uncertain times right now.
Career & Life-Purpose Despair,
Emotional Stuff, Mid-Life Changes or Painful Relationship
Dilemmas personally don't make it easier. So
please, go 'see' somebody & really start
working it out. 'You' - really being heard
from way deep inside and coached forward &
through by a counseling therapist who can
deeply understand you – human to human.
So get out of your own 'protective'
self-imposed isolation: “I can do it by myself” mantra -
reinforced
by ego-pride-shame-hurt-loss-fear-cycles & just put yourself into
counseling sessions for awhile. It'll be good for you - you'll get some relief,
some resolution and even some joy and laughter.
This is where you can work
on your Stuff and your Soul
on a 'frequent enough' basis
to make a really significant,
noticeable difference.
There is no obligation to have
a free phone-consultation with us
to see if this could feel good
and workable for you...
ARE YOU FEELING ‘DISSED’? ~
DISAPPOINTED
DISCOURAGED DISTRESSED Disagreeable Discomforted Disconnected Disconcerted
Discontent Disdainful Disgruntled Disgusted Disharmonious and Disheartened --
Disillusioned Disintegrated Distressed Dismayed Dismal Disorganized Disoriented
Disregarded Dissatisfied Distant Distraught Distrustful and very Disturbed
About It All --
This
whole ‘Dis’ this or ‘Dis’ that thing - about your life. You CAN change it! We
can help support and assist you. 'Therapy' is a huge personal challenge - but
YOU DO have to show up for yourself to make it happen.
"Eighty percent of success is just
showing up" ~ Woody Allen
Please,
Get some quality counseling therapy -
somewhere, anywhere -
that may be a place for you to start.
Be very welcome to inquire about us.
Again, maybe you are
a very UNCOMMON PERSON ....
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" Every community needs
a group of angelic troublemakers "
~ Bayard Rustin, black activist social
reformer
"Our constant 'Inner-Inquiry' is our
Passion
and our Passion is our Life-task. All the rest
is the wonderful madness of art." ~ Henry
James
"Be daring, be different, be impractical,
be anything!
Anything that will assert Integrity of Purpose
and imaginative vision against the
play-it-safers,
the creatures of the commonplace,
the slaves of the ordinary." ~ Sir Cecil
Beaton
"Be not afraid of absurdity - do not
shrink from the fantastic!
Within a dilemma - choose the most unheard-of,
the most audacious solution!
De l'audace! De l'audace!
Et encore de l'audace! Be audacious!" ~
Karen Blixen
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WHAT CONTINUES to FOLLOW is going to take some
more reading time - and
some more patience on your part to read and
sort yourself thru.
You do not have to read it all at once - Read
at your leisure.
TAKE IT IN SMALL BITES, GRAZE, SCROLL and SKIP
AROUND IN IT --
YOU'LL CERTAINLY KNOW A LOT MORE about what
you need
when you're done reading some/all of this ...
hang in there
______________________________________
Another
Basic Problem:
Emotions get to overrun and run thinking.
Thoughts get so embedded in feelings ~
Confusion, hopeless, numb... angry and sad
MAYBE YOU'VE BECOME SO OVERWHELMINGLY
‘IDENTIFIED’
and
OVER-INVOLVED IN YOUR OWN DIFFICULT 'LIFE-STORY'
That You Can’t See The Forest Because of All
The Trees!
Your 'Story' of being such a driven 'Winner'
or a victimized 'Loser' - or just a plain Nobody ’out there’ - you're just so
overwhelmed, you’ve become under-whelming - feeling so isolated - that you just
plain 'hurt'. Maybe you’ve lost the path, or forgotten the way, or just feel so
ineffective in your 'deeper' inner-search. Or you’ve just never yet really
sought out Who ‘You’ really, really are - ‘in here’. Inside.
RE-DISCOVERING and DEFINING
"Yourself" - totally defined in/on your OWN TERMS ! ( not society’s
term’s or religion's terms or family’s terms ). YOUR Own Terms is what 'Therapy
of the Spirit' is largely about ! Therapy of the 'True' Spirit is really where
ALL mind / spirit / soul-healing MUST start. True therapy has to start and end
with the Heart ! It’s been that way in every culture all through time! It's
just only that until very recently, the 'choices' of that kind of healings have
always been so few and restricted in availability to either doctors or shamans
or the church. No longer. Every approach world-wide is now available to you!
It's from this very Big Approach that you can truly find yourself and then
truly give back to others in a valuable, clear, easy-going and natural way ...
true 'Goodness'. Faith in ourselves simply as Humans-restored. And it can be
'Spiritual' AND YET totally NON-RELIGIOUS.. Please consider that!
____________________________________________________
“The
SPIRITUAL ADULTHOOD PROJECT” is a Buddhist-based Psycho/Spiritual oriented
Counseling and Alternative Therapy. The world renown and respected ancient
tradition of Buddhist Mindfulness Psychology is a path of cultivating a
'transcendent' - a 'higher sanity' - a very clear-seeing ability for yourself.
By developing this wisdom understanding, you are now available to generate a
much more all-inclusive compassion - which leads to an authentic peace in
ourselves, which we can then extend out to our family, friends and the world.
Learning and using a 2500 year-old tested self-development approaches and
techniques towards a clear, wholesome, peaceful, joyful mind. Traditional
Buddhism is absolutely NOT a ‘religious path’ but more of a practical,
pragmatic, highly intelligent ‘Humanism’ - There are NO gods and NO worship and
NO religious superstitions involved in anything we offer in any way whatsoever.
Unless you do want to hear it. Working archetype-forms that are really just
good stories…. Or not. The Buddha ( 528 BC ) himself was an atheist. There are
some challenging bewilderments in Buddhism for the mind. Zen is founded on it….
Just discovering and uncovering the essence of a sane, wise, peaceful, pure
spirit that is YOU.
_______________________________________
“And
then the day came
when the risk to
remain tight in a bud
was more than the risk
it took to blossom” ~ Anais Nin
_____________________________
" FORGIVENESS Is Giving Up
All Hope For A Better Past! " ~ Aba Gayle
“It
is still up to you to choose
to join with ‘truth’ or with ‘illusion’.
But
remember that to choose one
is to let go of the other.” ~ A Course In
Miracles
“
If Nothing Changes, Nothing Changes !
When the Way comes to an end, then change -
having changed, you pass through." ~ I
Ching
ABOUT WHO WE ARE and HOW WE THINK:
A JOYFUL DISCLAIMER and A Statement of
Philosophy ...
Who We Are In Our Hearts and In Our Heads
as a 'Spiritually-Based' Counseling Service ~
that too is certainly going to affect you !
The Buddhist’s Theory of Everything.
We are truly 'non-denominational' and
'non-religious' and welcome all journeyers of all Ways,
or especially even those of no way.
'Spiritual' doesn't mean 'Religion'. Actually, you can't even become a
'Buddhist', as that too is just another 'label'. The ONE Web of existence, life
& consciousness has many 'Names' in many different world cultures. The
ONE Web 'itself', really has NO name at all. All cultures on the planet call it
‘The One’ ( 1. ) So we just simply call it "EVERYTHING". All of
'creation' itself. ‘Creator’ & ‘Creation’ is all the same thing, the
same One. We simply leave it at that. One is One and there is nothing outside
of it. It's All ONE. You gotta’ love it all. We try to love it All. Most of the
time, piece by piece in peace.
" There is no such thing as a strictly
'secular' therapy - or that a therapy is 'non-spiritual' .. That’s where
establishment psychological sciences are poetically naïve. EVERY 'therapy' is
spiritual if it deals with matters of the heart and emotions and feelings.
Buddhist approaches in particular, are 'spiritual' BUT non-religious. The
historical Buddha was a Humanist & a Pragmatist. There's a freedom of
intelligence & openness to that - a big difference. " ~ Abraham
Maslow
•
WHY of ALL Possible Things - are we Buddhist-based ???
We particularly use the Buddhist branding
name, because those Asian cultures have got some of the most skillfully mature,
very grounded, least misleading, most inclusive and the very best of the
mind-healing techniques available so far - so far as we've come across. So we
use 'em. And we're still strongly very eclectic: we use many diverse approaches
- so we'll use what YOU need, not what 'we' like best or 'believe in'. We're on
your side! We practice as Buddhist ministers not as licensed MFT or clinical
psychologists.
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We'll gladly give you a FREELY offered Local
Phone Consultation –
No
Obligation ! - or call to set up an actual appointment • 310-450-2268
The phone is much more personal - and some
quality 'personal attention'
is probably what you need for yourself right
now -- more 'closeness'
rather than distance... We do know that when
you're feeling vulnerable, skittish or just plain bad and sad -- sometimes
'reaching out' is hard -- please, do take up the challenge!
"Take the first step in faith.
You don't have to see the whole staircase
-- just take the first step." ~ Martin
Luther King
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we also offer to the community ~
•
Prior to Akasa Levi’s partial retirement from group meditation teaching in 2014
with a Parkinson’ diagnosis - he Creatively-minded Corporate/Business
Consultation: Human Resource Resolution
and 'Spirit In The Workplace' development.
Very way out of the box stuff. We also consult
on the American 'spiritual mind-set', 'The
Crisis In Faith', 'Loss of Classical Mythologies
to Technology', 'What's Wrong With Our Minds
and Culture?' and current 'religious trends'
(trends that are quite unconscious, un
self-identified & dreadfully naive within the
contemporary American/Western cultural
praadigm as a whole.
•
We Counsel all manifestations of alternative & emerging life-styles:
mixed racial/religious
partnerings & marriages; gay &
bi curious, str8 still exploring. It's the 21st Century:
It's a big wide open world out there now... We
offer bridge-building between communities:
people of all colors, religions, diverse
cultures & ethnic origins. A pluralistic society brings
so many awesome enrichments as well as
struggles of balance & new found respect ...
"If you do not see God
in the next person you meet,
you need look no further." ~ Gandhi
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“La
vraie générosité envers l'avenir consiste à tout donner au présent.”
“True generosity towards the future is to give
everything to the present.” ~ Albert Camus
" THE GREATEST RISK IS NOT TAKING ONE!
"
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QUOTES ~ The Gift of Wise Words
To measure you by your smallest deed
is to judge the ocean by the frailty of it's
foam.
To judge you by your failures is to cast blame
upon the seasons for their
inconsistencies ~ Kahlil Gibran
What good you do is of little significance,
But it is very important that you do it.
WE must be the change you want
to see in the world " ~ Mahatma Gandhi
"If
we have no peace,
it is because we have forgotten
that we belong to each other." ~ Mother Teresa
"You yourself,
as much as anyone in the entire Universe,
deserves your OWN affection, care and love.
You can explore the whole universe looking
for someone who is more deserving of your
love and affection than you are yourself...
and you will not find that person anywhere.
To be maximum effective -
the Practice of Loving-Kindness
must absolutely begin with
yourself!" ~ The Buddha
_the Practice of Loving-Kindness_______________________________________
“Who was born first, 'You' or 'The World'?
As long as you give first place to ‘The World’
--
you are bound by it.
Once you realize, beyond all trace of doubt,
that the ‘world’ is in you --
-- and not 'you' in the world,
right then and there, you are out of it.
Of course, your body remains in the world
and 'of' the world,
but YOU are not d-e-l-u-d-e-d by it.”
~ Nisargadatta Maharaj
They drew a circle that shut me out --
Calling me a heretic, rebel, a thing to flout.
But Love and I had the wit to win --
We drew a circle that took them in.
~ Edwin Markham "Outwitted"
"Do not look back in Anger,
or forward in Fear,
but around in Awareness" ~ James Thurber
"At night make me fearlessly one
with the Darkness ~
In the morning make me
optimistically one with the Light" ~
Wendell Berry
You may want to hi-lite, copy and send
the quote below to people you know...
some of the wisest guidance you will
ever read, put to personal use or offer.
Here it is ~
"Be patient toward all that is unsolved
in your heart.
Try to love the 'Questions' themselves - like
locked rooms
and like books that are written in a foreign
language.
Do not, just right now, seek for the Answers.
The 'Answers' which cannot now be given to you
-
because you would not be able to actually
‘live’ them.
And the point is to ‘live’ everything -
experiencing
everything.
At present, you need to live the Questions
themselves.
Perhaps you will then gradually, without even
noticing it,
live along some day into the true Answer. Your
answer."
~ Rilke's "Letters to a Young Poet"
(1903-1908)
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We are non-denominational and definitely
non-religious and
welcome all journeyers of all Ways or even
none.
-:¦:- The SPIRITUAL ADULTHOOD PROJECT •
buddhistcounselingmindfulnesstherapy.blogspot.com • Buddhist-based
'alternative' approaches to relating with Your True Core Self • One-to-One
individual therapy • Relationship counseling • Partnering issues • Difficult to
communicate feelings • Disheartened anxious insecure Wounded Spirit • Counsel
for 'Uncommon People' 'Rebels' 'Creatives' 'Sensitives' cerebral verbal
artistic gifted ~ yet really Unhappy. "Mindfulness Insight" cultivates
a calm, kind, wise, deep liberation with a "Big Good-Hearted Mind"
The
SPIRITUAL ADULTHOOD PROJECT is a Member of S.E.N. (Spiritual Emergency Network
at Esalen Institute in Big Sur). We are an
outreach-project of “The Laughing Buddha Sangha”
in
Santa Monica, CA 90405 - and utilize the practice-approaches offered by Spirit
Rock Meditation Center in Woodacre/Santa Rosa, CA. Our favorite meditation
center here in town is InsightLA.org in Santa Monica about 5 blocks away right
up the street.
♦
The LAUGHING BUDDHA SANGHA - guided by AKASA LEVI, a former ordained American
Buddhist forest monk who lived many years in rural Asia. Akasa coaches a small,
salon-sized Satsang sitting group for Buddhist Mindfulness Meditation with
practice discussion and Dharma theory study. Now a feisty 75, this eccentric,
really funny ole' Dharma-mentor teaches in his little meditation shrine room
filled with statues of the Buddha. He invites anyone - beginners welcome -
practicing an 'awareness meditation' to come sit.
16
point
Counseling.2.SoSoBEST.SoSoWORST.doc
18 point
PAGES TO GET DOWN
INTO. . . MARCH 2016 /
-:¦:- The SPIRITUAL ADULTHOOD PROJECT
The LAUGHING
BUDDHA SANGHA q(~?~)p
guided by AKASA LEVI ~ 310-450-2268
BUDDHIST
COUNSELING SESSIONS and
MINDFULNESS
PRACTICE as a THERAPY
•
INDIVIDUAL PERSONAL Therapy
•
RELATIONSHIP Counseling
Santa
Monica CA 90405 ~ 310-450-2268
See
CONTACT Details at Table of Contents
http://buddhistmeditationsantamonica.com just good reading
http://buddhistcounselingmindfulnesstherapy.blogspot.com we’re
remodeling
" What is accepted by the majority of people -
does not mean it is Real." ~ The
Buddha
A
New York Jewish Therapist
Living
In California
Is
What I Always Wanted To Be,
What
I Always Wanted To Do --
But
‘Reasons’ Intervened,
So
Since I Didn’t,
Since
I Couldn’t ~
I
Became This !
Which
One ?
A
New York Jewish Therapist:
What
I Always Wanted To Be,
But
Since I Didn’t, I Became This !
The SPIRITUAL
ADULTHOOD PROJECT
~ a truly effective Buddhist-based 'Alternative' way
complementary to contemporary psychotherapy
for the Discomforted Mind, Wounded Spirit or
Disheartened, Despairing Relationship ~
all in the midst of our very edgy,
over-driven, survival-stressed
Uncertain Times
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• I’m a ONE MAN
SHOP ~ Always have been.
I Counsel both Adult Women and Puer Men In
One-to-One
Individual Therapy sessions
Buddhist Counseling sessions and
Mindfulness Practice as a Therapy
Buddhist Dharma Life-Coaching
• Individual
Personal Therapy
• Relationship
Counseling for
Couples, Partnering issues,
and Self-Identity
issues.
Verbal, inter-active, face to face,
very personal, kind and caring
as well as ‘tough-love’ - and
appropriate directive ‘tasks’
and even homework - in clear,
hopefully effective sessions.
“Relationships” can be difficult.
Period. Everyone
knows that.
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Brief Profiles: Meditation
-:¦:- The LAUGHING BUDDHA SANGHA - guided by
AKASA LEVI, a former ordained American Buddhist forest monk who lived many
years in rural Asia. Akasa coaches a small, salon-sized Satsang sitting group
for Buddhist Mindfulness meditation with practice discussion and Dharma theory
study. Now a feisty 75, this eccentric, really funny ole' Dharma-mentor teaches
at his little meditation shrine room filled with statues of the Buddha. He
invites anyone actively practicing an 'awareness meditation' to come sit.
Beginners very welcome.
Brief Profiles: Teacher
-:¦:- The
SPIRITUAL ADULTHOOD PROJECT ♦
The LAUGHING
BUDDHA SANGHA ♦ guided by AKASA LEVI - a U.S.military Vet and former ordained
American Buddhist forest monk • who lived many years in rural Asia - to be with
the LAST LIVING BUDDHIST TEACHERS of the PRE-GLOBAL ERA, most passed on now •
Akasa is a feisty 75 - an adorable authentic genuine curmudgeon • Odd, a really
funny, eccentric old man of the Dharma, a respected BuJu Tribal Elder • Advaita
yogi, rogue academic mentor into nourishing a maverick, iconoclast intelligence
in the people he treats, teaches, counsels or coaches at his little meditation
shrine room in his garage • Filled with statues of the ancient Buddha, he also
practices in the scientific secular spirit of contemporary Mindfulness
meditation as well • Truly an acquired taste like Thai shrimp paste, Akasa is
known for his spontaneity, ready warmth, and wry unpredictable humor • Please
VISIT the Expanded BIG BIO PROFILE at the TABLE of CONTENTS. Read Part One of The Making Of . . .
Brief Profiles:
Counseling Therapy
-:¦:- The
Spiritual Adulthood Project ~ is where I can offer Buddhist based
'Alternative' approaches to relating with Your True Core Self • One-to-One
Individual therapy • Relationship and Partnering issues • Difficult to
communicate feelings • Disheartened anxious insecure Wounded Spirit • Therapy
for "Non-Ordinary", "Uncommon People" • 'Rebels' 'Creatives'
'Sensitives' cerebral verbal artistic gifted ~ and Unhappy people •
"Mindfulness" really works
to cultivate a calm, kind, wise, spacious, fearless "Big Good-Hearted
Mind".
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What About Uncertain Times ?
" It was the
best of times,
It was the worst of
times,
It was the age of
wisdom,
It was the age of
foolishness,
It was the epoch of
belief,
It was the epoch of
incredulity,
It was the season
of Light,
It was the season
of Darkness,
It was the spring
of hope,
It was the winter
of despair,
We had everything
before us,
We had nothing
before us,
We were all going direct to
Heaven,
We were all going direct the
other way -
In short, the period was so
far -:¦:-
just like the present period.
~ Sir Charles Dickens ~
A Tale of Two Cities (1859)
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Hi ~ I’M JUST GETTING STARTED
by filling my plastic water bottle and
sitting in one of my favorite places.
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INSTRUCTIONS # 5 Reading Out Loud
If you graze these pages and scroll n' roll around in
this site -
follow some of it along - ponder a bit down a very
articulate path -
then some words catch your eye - an image of a
feeling from
a different time from now - as you breathe and sit
immobile,
your body a pleasant mass of soft meditative sensation -
you space out to go in, as you invite a sweet mild trance
to embrace you - remembering your ‘mindfulness’ by
wiggling your toes that invoke flocks of feeling images
within you flow, breathe the silence, settle down gently
into open space way out in between the words - the
sounds of silence, the sensations of feeling, observe
the images but don’t touch, just watch reflect ponder
contemplate but don’t stay to long as Knowing
appears all by itself . . .
What is the True Nature of Life ?
“Never gave it a
thought”
Sure you have….
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Besides the illuminating inspiring little readings on
this site, and besides the details in this site pertaining to your possible
being here at some time - there's a lot of short snippets of good poetry and pithy
phrases in here to inspire and uplift you - and go for rides in your iPhone - so
please go sit still somewhere, breathe, slow down, breathe, listen to the
silence, breathe, notice the incredible naturalness of everything, and
intelligently nourish your Spirit also….
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“And then the day came
when the risk to remain
tight in a bud
was more painful
than the risk
it took to blossom” ~ Anais Nin
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Maybe you're an
UNCOMMON PERSON ....
The “Uncommon
Person” / “The Non-Ordinary Person”
Already Feels
Different -- in a Very Non-Assimilate-able Way.
Many people really do, but for the truly 'uncommon one'
it's sort of a double-whammy to carry!" ~ Abraham Maslow
• UNHAPPY
'UNCOMMON' PEOPLE are by their nature
sensitive, creative, genius, silent, smart, goofy, individualistic, righteously
impatient yet newly empathic, higher-consciousness oriented people gaining
ground with sacred Grace - artistic, intellectual, autistically techy,
stylishly awkward, mystical, musical, poetic, and certainly can be real
spiritual or real ugly like the rest of us can be.
• So you’d probably need an authentic 'Non-traditional Therapist' who
understands “non-mainstream”, non-Matrix lifestyles -- and who is deeply
empathic and genuinely understands ‘uncommon' and ‘unusual’ or ‘non-ordinary’ people
- who are quite unique or gifted, yet unhappy people.
• You may be a
very 'individual' person who feels very naturally inward, spiritual
oriented - and yet you're struggling to get ‘worldly’ problems/emotional issues
handled realistically and with integrity as well -- yet without you having to
commit to any spiritual path whatsoever.
• As a contemporary Healer of sorts - of the unsure Mind
and of the broken Heart. Yet I offer NO
promises or religious prescriptions - not even some evangelical dogma drama.
I offer ‘Nothing’ to ‘Believe’ in. That’s
a Buddhist pun. ‘Nothing’ - just
the emergence of your own individual ‘true knowing’ and personal excellence. I
want to assist you in discovering a 'natural unfolding' of unshakable balance,
boundless wisdom and joy. And your innate good humor - Liberating a new sense
of caring and connectedness with yourself, other people and the universe. An
expanded inner acceptance and outer effectiveness.
‘RAW QUALITIES OF GOOD BEING’ We All Have
• Yet still, us Unhappy 'Uncommon' folk hold a small but rapidly
growing niche market in the “developing consciousness” industry - so we're not
exactly the ordinary 'Retail' majority. In all kindness to Target shoppers, the
masses are still buying into it, buying it, bought-in, still living on the bought
on credit larger grid - what the Dalai Lama calls The Suffering Consumer -
"Consumers" - people strongly subject to the lures and addictive pulls
of Desire and Attachment, by indulgence or necessity. Capitalism totally
depends on them. “Mindfulness teaches us to let them go and stress less. Notice
how many Zen Zafu meditation cushions and Yoga mats are being sold lately. . .
• You, by the way, are innately blessed with the precious
‘raw qualities of good being’ that
you may unknowingly DO possess and host. And probably don’t know it or the
depths of it. That is an under-developed
area of repair work we will be actively working on. Fortunately, the whole
world really is watching ( and that's a huge form of 'participation' also,
please don't discount it ) There’s good people out there. There is a genuine
Waking-up happening. More so soon than ever. Now we are all globally touched by
it. The social media is re-birthing newly minted curious cyber babies into what
is hopefully an ever-constant, continuing, community ‘conversation’ that is now
visibly, audibly out of the Dark and on a wobbling enlightenment course,
fumbling into the Light -- and you and me with it, on some level or other.
• Today,the young beouiois swar
Millennials are an obsession-prone, precarious, precious pool of new human
resource for training and cultivating sincerely talented, novice ’Bodhisattva’ compassion-energy,
ready for downloading and absorbing some of the planet’s most ancient wisdom ways
towards fulfilling non-conditional ( unconditional ) happiness. The Boomers are
busy modeling for the Gen X ,,,and my father’s Depression and anything earlier than
1950 is as they say, History. Americans are historically illiterate anyway,
and the Millennials have no practical motivation to reference what came before
them. That leaves me at the beginning of the end of it all. I’m old. My
students are 27, I’m 75. The first to go. leaves me at te end of it all. I’m next to go.
settled in, Millennials, some of them are filled with such compassionate
energy, idealistic intensity, and a grounded integrity focused on their 'Causes'. Their sincerity
is adding to the cyber technology with their own Loving-kindness potential. “Good
goods, these kids got…” my Uncle Max would say
• Bless ALL The
Arts and it's myriad Lovers -- yes, we're still here as Angelic
Trouble-makers - the Activists, Radicals, Progressives, the Lefties and the
Movement people. They 'usta call us Avant Garde, and that's a heavy mantle to
carry - seriously - without a clearly defined, yet natural "identity"
in hand that's authentically Real at the same time. One major difficulty is if
I'm psychologically disfigured, disoriented in some way, I can't really see the
deeper happiness potential right there in myself and others, especially if the
damage is still semi suppressed and not well Life-managed or Self-regulated --
or Happy.
" You need to find out What, Why and Who you are.
And are not. And then put that all aside." said Dr. Jung _________________________________
“NOTHING” -
Even tho’, as a contemporary Healer of sorts -
of the unsure Mind and of the broken Heart -
Yet I offer NO
promises or religious prescriptions -
‘Nothing’ - I offer
‘Nothing’ to ‘Believe’ in.
That’s a Buddhist
pun - that opens a whole
other discussion doorway.
‘Nothing’ -
just the emergence
of your own individual
‘true knowing’ and personal excellence.
__________________________________
" THE GREATEST
RISK IS NOT TAKING ONE! "
SOME IMPORTANT
Preliminary DETAILS ~
or just skip 'em and Keep Reading . . .
• I’m a ONE MAN
SHOP ~ Always have been.
I Counsel both Adult Women and Men In
One-to-One
Individual Therapy sessions
Buddhist Counseling sessions and
Mindfulness Practice as a Therapy
Buddhist Dharma Life-Coaching
• Individual
Personal Therapy
• Relationship
Counseling for
Couples, Partnering issues,
Gender and Identity issues.
Verbal, inter-active, face to face,
very personal, kind and caring
as well as ‘tough-love’ - and
appropriate directive ‘tasks’
and even homework - in clear,
hopefully effective sessions.
“Relationships” can be difficult.
Period. Everyone knows that.
What’s In The Box ?
• These counseling and therapy sessions have a strong Buddhist informed theoretical base, as
well as good Western modalities like psycho-dynamic analysis and CBT (cognitive
behavioral therapy ) spinoffs. I use “Mindfulness” approaches to approach the
highly dissatisfied mind, discomforted feelings, and disruptive emotions while
they’re in ’process’. Later on you’re most welcome to move on to group meditation and
sharing sessions if you wish, as your tolerances’ get more fit.
• At “Spiritual Adulthood” we offer a uniquely combined
counseling an innovative, holistic, Asian-based ‘spiritual variation' of
therapy grounded in pragmatic, practical Buddhist psychology. Created for
intelligent people - sensitive people - creative people - odd, uncommon unhappy
people…
“NOTHING” -
Even tho’, as a contemporary Healer of sorts -
of the unsure Mind and of the broken Heart -
Yet I offer NO
promises or religious prescriptions -
‘Nothing’ - I offer
‘Nothing’ to ‘Believe’ in.
That’s a Buddhist
pun - that opens a whole
other discussion
doorway. ‘Nothing’ -
just the emergence
of your own individual
‘true knowing’ and personal excellence.
______________________________
I practice as a
Buddhist minister / pastoral counselor,
not as a licensed MFT or PhD clinical psychologist. I take in a much broader cultural
scope than just the psychological. I have to address the sociology / anthropology
of it all - What got it to be this way ? The cultivation of a very contemporary
metaphysical Spirit in this difficult modern media-driven society we live in,
is a necessity. What will that look like
?
• Re-educating your
Spirit also, gives your Spirits a chance to be a wider, stronger, well informed
inner-platform and inner-space to work with. ‘Realistically’ or
‘Meta-physically’. Both are the supreme, indigenous creations of cultures based
in one local regional area or another to work on their Healing Arts organically
and renovate YOU with many millennia worth of Spirit-treasure - on indigenously
-undisturbed in a limited cultural isolation. Hey traded for medicinals and
leaves for tools and textiles in small hamlets if there was a road in… only
symbolic. Good spiritual TV.
• At “Spiritual Adulthood” we offer a uniquely combined
counseling an innovative, holistic, Asian-based ‘spiritual variation' of
therapy grounded in pragmatic, practical Buddhist psychology. Created for
intelligent people - sensitive people - creative people - odd, uncommon unhappy
people…
You may want to
talk with someone - like me - someone who has training in both worlds:
psychology AND spirituality.
• This is not a
traditional Western licensed clinical psychotherapy --
nor is it
'Religious'. ‘Religious’ suggests it’s being done on their clock, on their
time. ‘Spiritual’ suggests it is happening on your time internally,
individually, it’s all about you -- It is 'Spiritual', which takes in
everything ‘sacred’ human culture and benevolent well intentioned thought has
ever created.
• What is it ? This form of counseling therapy can be called
many things --
Spiritual-based Counseling • Psycho/Spiritual Therapy •
Spiritual Direction • Spiritual-oriented Life Coaching • Medicine men and women
• Tribal Shaman’s work and practitioners in the Healing Arts the world over.
The Good Ones doing good healing practices • It's been going on effectively for
1000's of years ...
• ‘True’ Happiness is totally ( well, almost
totally ) taught as being independent and free of the unavoidable effects of
‘everyday’ circumstances, conditions and compromises - really 'true liberated freedom'
as they've spoken about in Asian teachings for millennia. ‘Un-True’ Happiness
isn’t a Freedom inside us, it’s bound to erroneous stuff by shackled
conditions. And we obsessively worry it all the time.
Talk with someone who
has training in both worlds:
psychology AND spirituality !
" THE GREATEST
RISK IS NOT TAKING ONE! "
SOME IMPORTANT
Preliminary DETAILS ~
or just skip 'em and Keep Reading . . .
• I’m a ONE MAN
SHOP ~ Always have been.
I Counsel both Adult Women and Men in
One-on-One
Individual Therapy sessions
Buddhist Counseling sessions and
Mindfulness Practice as a Therapy
Buddhist Dharma Life-Coaching
• Individual
Personal Therapy
• Relationship
Counseling for
Couples, Partnering issues,
Gender and Identity issues.
Verbal, inter-active, face to face,
very personal, kind and caring
as well as ‘tough-love’ - and
appropriate directive ‘tasks’
and even homework - in clear,
hopefully effective sessions.
“Relationships” can be difficult.
Period. Everyone knows that.
These are counseling and therapy sessions with a strong
Buddhist informed theoretical base, as well as good Western modalities like
psycho-dynamic analysis and CBT ( cognitive-behavioral therapy ) spinoffs. I
use “Mindfulness” approaches to approach the highly dissatisfied mind,
discomforted feelings, and disruptive emotions right in their ’process’. Later
on you’re most welcome to move on to group meditation and sharing sessions if
you wish, as your ‘tolerances’ get more fit.
________________________
PLEASE NOTE ~
A Few House
Responsibilities - Here’s the Deal…
Dear Gals or Guys ~ Glad You’re Here !
And I gotta’ be
sorta strict-ish about your own life-plan arrangements affecting your even being
here, work time and drive time kvetching, money issues, and other important
‘engine maintenance’ responsibilities - all so we have the way more clear - we
have the freedom to actually ‘Work’ the session - and not get too caught up and
fuss around with the logistics of Details -- unless of course this is a part of
the way you roll…
• ALL counseling sessions are all 'Live' counseling
visits at my little ‘Shrine’. I don’t do house calls. No Skype. My steady
counseling clients are limited to our immediate local area - so you can be on
time and I can run a tight little old guy’s ship. Thank you for hearing this ~
really.
• PHONE
COUNSELING-sessions will probably happen later on, here and there - but only when necessary for 'established
clients' with me.
• I can gladly offer
you a First-Time FREE phone consultation to local Los Angeles area
inquirers. 1-310-450-2268. I will
certainly need to talk with you on the phone first. There is no first free
session. It's all about developing a solid, sound 'ground' of genuine communication
-- and what it is to be a responsible client.
• Please ASK ME
PLENTY of QUESTIONS, Difficult Questions, and really feel into if
"Spiritual Adulthood" sessions might be helpful for you --
• FEE: Ongoing
regular steady sessions are by a mutually arranged fee, date and time by
appointment only.
• I can offer AFFORDABLE NEGOTIABLE sliding scale lower fee sessions for those who really need it. I am
not greedy. I do not take insurance coverage, health plans or Medicare, Obama
Care, HMOs etc. I do not accept any electronic plastic as a payment means -
only cash of check. I must charge full going fee For A First Time Visit. I can
discuss sliding scales after that.
• I usually offer
a much more generous EXTENDED SESSION-TIME than is usual... Most sessions are given much more than the
standard therapy-hour's time (:55 min ). We offer you sessions usually about
one hour+20 min (:80 min) to allow plenty of time to go really deep as you need
to during your session that particular day... without feeling cut off or
hurried out the door..
• A FIRST-TIME
PHONE INQUIRY ( FREE ) is always good to have with you - and much more
immediate for me to respond to you, if you briefly write down your issues and
some feelings before you call me. Please do not email instead, the live voice
is so important to hear --- ( ambivalent emails back and forth really
does not work well at all ) Please simply PHONE
ME - and that may take courage on your part, but ‘courage’ is what we
will also be working on… we'd need to talk 'Live' first - if you sincerely wish
to inquire further.
• BEST PHONE TIMES
for reaching me on any particular day:
NOON to 6 PM
weekdays -- usually Tuesday thru Thursday.
Usually 6:00 pm being the last client of the day.
Friday as a reschedule day or as a spill-over day.
These are the best guidelines to try’n reach me --
1-310-450-2268.
Then again, TRY 10
minutes before the hour.
• And I just may be in session when you call.
LEAVE A MESSAGE
+ phone number + email.
When can you best be reached.
That’s what this is basically about at core -
Becoming
Reachable.
‘How can I reach
you ?’ --
and please speak very slowly and clearly.
It is important that you’re going try your best
to make yourself ‘accessible’ -- so I can reach you
-- and you can reach us -- and best, you can 'reach'
yourself.
Buddha Learned
How to Become
an Easy to Reach Person.
No barriers, No protection.
Nothing to protect.
Actually, there was no Buddha.
• We can possibly refer
you to qualified Buddhist counselors
or therapists in your own local or regional area if you
email me.
Again… "The Greatest Risk Is Not Taking
One"
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WHAT CONTINUES to FOLLOW is going to take some more
reading time - and
some more patience
on your part to read and sort yourself thru.
You do not have to
read it all at once - Read at your leisure.
TAKE IT IN SMALL
BITES, GRAZE, SCROLL and SKIP AROUND IN IT --
YOU'LL CERTAINLY KNOW A LOT MORE about what you need
when you're done
reading some/all of this ... hang in there
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BE COURAGEOUS !
" As human beings, our greatness lies
not so much in
being able to remake the world...
as a being able to
remake ourselves.
WE must become the
changes
we want to see in
the world " ~ Gandhi
" You began
as a Creation, now become a Creator.
Never wait at a
barrier " ~ Rumi
" The limits
of the possible can only be defined
by going beyond
them into the impossible." ~ Arthur C. Clarke
“ Good, but impossible resolutions, are simply checks
that men draw on a
bank where they have no account.
Start with the
eminently 'possible'. ~ Oscar Wilde
" While one
person hesitates
because they feel
insecure and inferior,
the other is busy
making mistakes aplenty
and becoming quite
superior." ~ The Tao
“DESTINY” is every step we’re taking
and going thru
right now to get there.”
~ Grandfather Bearheart, Creek elder
" There is no such thing as a 'problem'
without a 'gift'
for you in its hands.
Sometimes you have
problems
because you need
their gifts.
It is through
gifts that you grow." ~ Richard Bach
THE ‘PROBLEM’
“ BRING YOU LIFE
BACK
FROM THE 'EXILE'
OF YOUR SPIRIT
and INTO A SACRED
BALANCE AGAIN ! “ ~ Poet Laureate Robert Bly
• WHATEVER IT IS, YOU'RE "A-NOT-SO-HAPPY-PERSON"
Many, many folks
aren’t. We're in very agitated, anxious, turbulent, uncertain times right now.
Career &
Life-Purpose Despair, Emotional Stuff, Mid-Life Changes or Painful Relationship
Dilemmas
personally don't make it easier. So please, go 'see' somebody & really
start
working it out.
'You' - really being heard from way deep inside and coached forward &
through by a
counseling therapist who can deeply understand you – human to human.
So get out of your
own 'protective' self-imposed isolation: “I can do it by myself” mantra -
reinforced by ego-pride-shame-hurt-loss-fear-cycles
& just put yourself into counseling sessions for awhile. It'll be good
for you - you'll get some relief, some resolution and even some joy and
laughter.
This is where you
can work
on your Stuff and
your Soul
on a 'frequent
enough' basis
to make a really
significant,
noticeable
difference.
There is no
obligation to have
a free
phone-consultation with us
to see if this
could feel good
and workable for
you...
ARE YOU FEELING
‘DISSED’? ~
DISAPPOINTED DISCOURAGED DISTRESSED Disagreeable
Discomforted Disconnected Disconcerted Discontent Disdainful Disgruntled
Disgusted Disharmonious and Disheartened -- Disillusioned Disintegrated
Distressed Dismayed Dismal Disorganized Disoriented Disregarded Dissatisfied
Distant Distraught Distrustful and very Disturbed About It All --
This whole ‘Dis’ this or ‘Dis’ that thing - about your
life. You CAN change it! We can help support and assist you. 'Therapy' is a
huge personal challenge - but YOU DO have to show up for yourself to make it
happen.
"Eighty
percent of success is just showing up" ~ Woody Allen
Please,
Get some quality
counseling therapy -
somewhere,
anywhere -
that may be a
place for you to start.
Be very welcome to
inquire about us.
Again, maybe you
are
a very UNCOMMON
PERSON ....
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" Every
community needs
a group of angelic
troublemakers "
~ Bayard Rustin,
black activist social reformer
"Our constant
'Inner-Inquiry' is our Passion
and our Passion is
our Life-task. All the rest
is the wonderful
madness of art." ~ Henry James
"Be daring,
be different, be impractical, be anything!
Anything that will
assert Integrity of Purpose
and imaginative
vision against the play-it-safers,
the creatures of
the commonplace,
the slaves of the
ordinary." ~ Sir Cecil Beaton
"Be not
afraid of absurdity - do not shrink from the fantastic!
Within a dilemma -
choose the most unheard-of,
the most audacious
solution!
De l'audace! De
l'audace!
Et encore de
l'audace! Be audacious!" ~ Karen Blixen
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WHAT CONTINUES to
FOLLOW is going to take some more reading time - and
some more patience
on your part to read and sort yourself thru.
You do not have to
read it all at once - Read at your leisure.
TAKE IT IN SMALL
BITES, GRAZE, SCROLL and SKIP AROUND IN IT --
YOU'LL CERTAINLY
KNOW A LOT MORE about what you need
when you're done
reading some/all of this ... hang in there
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Another Basic Problem:
Emotions get to
overrun and run thinking.
Thoughts get so
embedded in feelings ~
Confusion,
hopeless, numb... angry and sad
MAYBE YOU'VE
BECOME SO OVERWHELMINGLY ‘IDENTIFIED’
and OVER-INVOLVED IN YOUR OWN DIFFICULT 'LIFE-STORY'
That You Can’t See
The Forest Because of All The Trees!
Your 'Story' of
being such a driven 'Winner' or a victimized 'Loser' - or just a plain Nobody
’out there’ - you're just so overwhelmed, you’ve become under-whelming -
feeling so isolated - that you just plain 'hurt'. Maybe you’ve lost the path,
or forgotten the way, or just feel so ineffective in your 'deeper'
inner-search. Or you’ve just never yet really sought out Who ‘You’ really,
really are - ‘in here’. Inside.
RE-DISCOVERING and
DEFINING "Yourself" - totally defined in/on your OWN TERMS ! ( not
society’s term’s or religion's terms or family’s terms ). YOUR Own Terms is
what 'Therapy of the Spirit' is largely about ! Therapy of the 'True' Spirit is
really where ALL mind / spirit / soul-healing MUST start. True therapy has to
start and end with the Heart ! It’s been that way in every culture all through
time! It's just only that until very recently, the 'choices' of that kind of
healings have always been so few and restricted in availability to either
doctors or shamans or the church. No longer. Every approach world-wide is now
available to you! It's from this very Big Approach that you can truly find
yourself and then truly give back to others in a valuable, clear, easy-going
and natural way ... true 'Goodness'. Faith in ourselves simply as
Humans-restored. And it can be 'Spiritual' AND YET totally NON-RELIGIOUS..
Please consider that!
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“The SPIRITUAL ADULTHOOD PROJECT” is a Buddhist-based
Psycho/Spiritual oriented Counseling and Alternative Therapy. The world renown
and respected ancient tradition of Buddhist Mindfulness Psychology is a path of
cultivating a 'transcendent' - a 'higher sanity' - a very clear-seeing ability
for yourself. By developing this wisdom understanding, you are now available to
generate a much more all-inclusive compassion - which leads to an authentic
peace in ourselves, which we can then extend out to our family, friends and the
world. Learning and using a 2500 year-old tested self-development approaches
and techniques towards a clear, wholesome, peaceful, joyful mind. Traditional
Buddhism is absolutely NOT a ‘religious path’ but more of a practical,
pragmatic, highly intelligent ‘Humanism’ - There are NO gods and NO worship and
NO religious superstitions involved in anything we offer in any way whatsoever.
Unless you do want to hear it. Working archetype-forms that are really just
good stories…. Or not. The Buddha ( 528 BC ) himself was an atheist. There are
some challenging bewilderments in Buddhism for the mind. Zen is founded on it….
Just discovering and uncovering the essence of a sane, wise, peaceful, pure
spirit that is YOU.
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“And then the day came
when the risk to
remain tight in a
bud
was more than the
risk
it took to
blossom” ~ Anais Nin
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" FORGIVENESS
Is Giving Up
All Hope For A
Better Past! " ~ Aba Gayle
“It is still up to you to choose
to join with
‘truth’ or with ‘illusion’.
But remember that to choose one
is to let go of
the other.” ~ A Course In Miracles
“ If Nothing Changes, Nothing Changes !
When the Way comes
to an end, then change -
having changed,
you pass through." ~ I Ching
ABOUT WHO WE ARE
and HOW WE THINK:
A JOYFUL
DISCLAIMER and A Statement of Philosophy ...
Who We Are In Our
Hearts and In Our Heads
as a
'Spiritually-Based' Counseling Service ~
that too is
certainly going to affect you !
The Buddhist’s
Theory of Everything.
We are truly
'non-denominational' and 'non-religious' and welcome all journeyers of all
Ways,
or especially even
those of no way. 'Spiritual' doesn't mean 'Religion'. Actually, you can't even
become a 'Buddhist', as that too is just another 'label'. The ONE Web of
existence, life & consciousness has many 'Names' in many different
world cultures. The ONE Web 'itself', really has NO name at all. All cultures
on the planet call it ‘The One’ ( 1. ) So we just simply call it
"EVERYTHING". All of 'creation' itself. ‘Creator’ &
‘Creation’ is all the same thing, the same One. We simply leave it at that. One
is One and there is nothing outside of it. It's All ONE. You gotta’ love it
all. We try to love it All. Most of the time, piece by piece in peace.
" There is no
such thing as a strictly 'secular' therapy - or that a therapy is
'non-spiritual' .. That’s where establishment psychological sciences are
poetically naïve. EVERY 'therapy' is spiritual if it deals with matters of the
heart and emotions and feelings. Buddhist approaches in particular, are
'spiritual' BUT non-religious. The historical Buddha was a Humanist & a
Pragmatist. There's a freedom of intelligence & openness to that - a
big difference. " ~ Abraham Maslow
• WHY of ALL Possible Things - are we Buddhist-based ???
We particularly
use the Buddhist branding name, because those Asian cultures have got some of
the most skillfully mature, very grounded, least misleading, most inclusive and
the very best of the mind-healing techniques available so far - so far as we've
come across. So we use 'em. And we're still strongly very eclectic: we use many
diverse approaches - so we'll use what YOU need, not what 'we' like best or
'believe in'. We're on your side! We practice as Buddhist ministers not as
licensed MFT or clinical psychologists.
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Psychological
Inflexibility: an A.C.T View of Suffering
The core
conception of ACT is that psychological suffering is usually caused by the
interface between human language and cognition, and the control of human
behavior by previous direct experience. And failure. ‘Psychological
inflexibility’ is then to emerge from experiential avoidance, cognitive
entanglement, attachment of a conceptualized ‘self’, loss of contact with the
present, and the resulting failure to take needed behavioral steps in accord
with core values. An extensive research program on a theory of convoluted
language and cognition, contemporary Relational Frame Theory (RFT / ACT ) takes
the view that trying to change difficult thoughts and feelings as a means of
coping can be counter productive, but new, powerful alternatives are available
- including ACT: acceptance, mindfulness, cognitive defusion, values, and
committed action therapies..
Cognitive fusion
-- the domination of stimulus functions based on literal language even when
that process is a harmful, experiential avoidance -- the phenomenon that occurs
when a person is unwilling to remain in contact with particular private
experiences and takes steps to alter the form or frequency of these events and
the contexts that occasion them, even when doing so causes psychological harm
the domination of a conceptualized self over the "self as context"
that emerges from perspective taking and relational frames lack of values,
confusion of goals with values, and other values problems that can underlie the
failure to build broad and flexible repertoires and an inability to build a
larger unit of behavior through commitment to behavior that moves in the
direction of chosen values
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We'll gladly give
you a FREELY offered Local Phone Consultation –
No Obligation ! - or call to set up an actual appointment
• 310-450-2268
The phone is much
more personal - and some quality 'personal attention'
is probably what
you need for yourself right now -- more 'closeness'
rather than
distance... We do know that when you're feeling vulnerable, skittish or just
plain bad and sad -- sometimes 'reaching out' is hard -- please, do take up the
challenge!
"Take the
first step in faith.
You don't have to
see the whole staircase
-- just take the
first step." ~ Martin Luther King
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we also offer to
the community ~
• Prior to Akasa Levi’s partial retirement from group meditation
teaching in 2014 with a Parkinson’ diagnosis - he Creatively-minded
Corporate/Business Consultation: Human Resource Resolution
and 'Spirit In The
Workplace' development. Very way out of the box stuff. We also consult
on the American
'spiritual mind-set', 'The Crisis In Faith', 'Loss of Classical Mythologies
to Technology',
'What's Wrong With Our Minds and Culture?' and current 'religious trends'
(trends that are
quite unconscious, un self-identified & dreadfully naive within the
contemporary
American/Western cultural praadigm as a whole.
• We Counsel all manifestations of alternative &
emerging life-styles: mixed racial/religious
partnerings
& marriages; gay & bi curious, str8 still exploring. It's the
21st Century:
It's a big wide
open world out there now... We offer bridge-building between communities:
people of all
colors, religions, diverse cultures & ethnic origins. A pluralistic
society brings
so many awesome
enrichments as well as struggles of balance & new found respect ...
"If you do
not see God
in the next person
you meet,
you need look no
further." ~ Gandhi
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“La vraie générosité envers l'avenir consiste à tout
donner au présent.”
“True generosity
towards the future is to give everything to the present.” ~ Albert Camus
" THE
GREATEST RISK IS NOT TAKING ONE! "
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QUOTES ~ The Gift
of Wise Words
To measure you by
your smallest deed
is to judge the
ocean by the frailty of it's foam.
To judge you by
your failures is to cast blame
upon the seasons
for their inconsistencies ~ Kahlil
Gibran
What good you do
is of little significance,
But it is very
important that you do it.
WE must be the
change you want
to see in the world
" ~ Mahatma Gandhi
"If we have no peace,
it is because we
have forgotten
that we belong to
each other." ~ Mother Teresa
"You
yourself,
as much as anyone
in the entire Universe,
deserves your OWN
affection, care and love.
You can explore
the whole universe looking
for someone who is
more deserving of your
love and affection
than you are yourself...
and you will not
find that person anywhere.
To be maximum
effective -
the Practice of
Loving-Kindness
must absolutely
begin with yourself!" ~ The Buddha
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“Who was born
first, 'You' or 'The World'?
As long as you
give first place to ‘The World’
-- you are bound by it.
Once you realize,
beyond all trace of doubt,
that the ‘world’
is in you --
-- and not 'you'
in the world,
right then and
there, you are out of it.
Of course, your
body remains in the world
and 'of' the
world,
but YOU are
not d-e-l-u-d-e-d by it.”
~ Nisargadatta
Maharaj
They drew a circle
that shut me out --
Calling me a
heretic, rebel, a thing to flout.
But Love and I had
the wit to win --
We drew a circle
that took them in.
~ Edwin Markham
"Outwitted"
"Do not look
back in Anger,
or forward in
Fear,
but around in
Awareness" ~ James Thurber
"At night
make me fearlessly one
with the Darkness
~
In the morning
make me
optimistically one
with the Light" ~ Wendell Berry
You may want to
hi-lite, copy and send
the quote below to
people you know...
some of the wisest
guidance you will
ever read, put to
personal use or offer.
Here it is ~
"Be patient
toward all that is unsolved in your heart.
Try to love the
'Questions' themselves - like locked rooms
and like books
that are written in a foreign language.
Do not, just right
now, seek for the Answers.
The 'Answers' which
cannot now be given to you -
because you would
not be able to actually ‘live’ them.
And the point is
to ‘live’ everything -
experiencing everything.
At present, you
need to live the Questions themselves.
Perhaps you will
then gradually, without even noticing it,
live along some
day into the true Answer. Your answer."
~ Rilke's
"Letters to a Young Poet" (1903-1908)
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We are
non-denominational and definitely non-religious and
welcome all
journeyers of all Ways or even none.
-:¦:- The
SPIRITUAL ADULTHOOD PROJECT • buddhistcounselingmindfulnesstherapy.blogspot.com
• Buddhist-based 'alternative' approaches to relating with Your True Core Self
• One-to-One individual therapy • Relationship counseling • Partnering issues •
Difficult to communicate feelings • Disheartened anxious insecure Wounded
Spirit • Counsel for 'Uncommon People' 'Rebels' 'Creatives' 'Sensitives'
cerebral verbal artistic gifted ~ yet really Unhappy. "Mindfulness
Insight" cultivates a calm, kind, wise, deep liberation with a "Big
Good-Hearted Mind"
The SPIRITUAL ADULTHOOD PROJECT is a Member of S.E.N.
(Spiritual Emergency Network
at Esalen
Institute in Big Sur). We are an outreach-project of “The Laughing Buddha
Sangha”
in Santa Monica, CA 90405 - and utilize the
practice-approaches offered by Spirit Rock Meditation Center in Woodacre/Santa
Rosa, CA. Our favorite meditation center here in town is InsightLA.org in Santa
Monica about 5 blocks away right up the street.
♦ The LAUGHING BUDDHA SANGHA - guided by AKASA LEVI, a
former ordained American Buddhist forest monk who lived many years in rural
Asia. Akasa coaches a small, salon-sized Satsang sitting group for Buddhist
Mindfulness Meditation with practice discussion and Dharma theory study. Now a
feisty 75, this eccentric, really funny ole' Dharma-mentor teaches in his
little meditation shrine room filled with statues of the Buddha. He invites
anyone - beginners welcome - practicing an 'awareness meditation' to come sit.
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-:¦:- The SPIRITUAL ADULTHOOD PROJECT
The LAUGHING
BUDDHA SANGHA q(~?~)p
guided by AKASA LEVI ~ 310-450-2268
BUDDHIST
COUNSELING SESSIONS and
MINDFULNESS
PRACTICE as a THERAPY
•
INDIVIDUAL PERSONAL Therapy
•
RELATIONSHIP Counseling
Santa
Monica CA 90405 ~ 310-450-2268
See
CONTACT Details at Table of Contents
http://buddhistmeditationsantamonica.com just good reading
http://buddhistcounselingmindfulnesstherapy.blogspot.com we’re
remodeling
" What is accepted by the majority of people -
does not mean it is Real." ~ The Buddha
A
New York Jewish Therapist
Living
In California
Is
What I Always Wanted To Be,
What
I Always Wanted To Do --
But
‘Reasons’ Intervened,
So
Since I Didn’t,
Since
I Couldn’t ~
I
Became This !
Which
One ?
A
New York Jewish Therapist:
What
I Always Wanted To Be,
But
Since I Didn’t, I Became This !
The SPIRITUAL
ADULTHOOD PROJECT
~ a truly effective Buddhist-based 'Alternative' way
complementary to contemporary psychotherapy
for the Discomforted Mind, Wounded Spirit or
Disheartened, Despairing Relationship ~
all in the midst of our very edgy,
over-driven, survival-stressed
Uncertain Times
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• I’m a ONE MAN
SHOP ~ Always have been.
I Counsel both Adult Women and Puer Men In
One-to-One
Individual Therapy sessions
Buddhist Counseling sessions and
Mindfulness Practice as a Therapy
Buddhist Dharma Life-Coaching
• Individual
Personal Therapy
• Relationship
Counseling for
Couples, Partnering issues,
and Self-Identity
issues.
Verbal, inter-active, face to face,
very personal, kind and caring
as well as ‘tough-love’ - and
appropriate directive ‘tasks’
and even homework - in clear,
hopefully effective sessions.
“Relationships” can be difficult.
Period. Everyone
knows that.
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Brief Profiles: Meditation
-:¦:- The LAUGHING BUDDHA SANGHA - guided by
AKASA LEVI, a former ordained American Buddhist forest monk who lived many
years in rural Asia. Akasa coaches a small, salon-sized Satsang sitting group
for Buddhist Mindfulness meditation with practice discussion and Dharma theory
study. Now a feisty 75, this eccentric, really funny ole' Dharma-mentor teaches
at his little meditation shrine room filled with statues of the Buddha. He
invites anyone actively practicing an 'awareness meditation' to come sit.
Beginners very welcome.
Brief Profiles: Teacher
-:¦:- The
SPIRITUAL ADULTHOOD PROJECT ♦
The LAUGHING
BUDDHA SANGHA ♦ guided by AKASA LEVI - a U.S.military Vet and former ordained
American Buddhist forest monk • who lived many years in rural Asia - to be with
the LAST LIVING BUDDHIST TEACHERS of the PRE-GLOBAL ERA, most passed on now •
Akasa is a feisty 75 - an adorable authentic genuine curmudgeon • Odd, a really
funny, eccentric old man of the Dharma, a respected BuJu Tribal Elder • Advaita
yogi, rogue academic mentor into nourishing a maverick, iconoclast intelligence
in the people he treats, teaches, counsels or coaches at his little meditation
shrine room in his garage • Filled with statues of the ancient Buddha, he also
practices in the scientific secular spirit of contemporary Mindfulness
meditation as well • Truly an acquired taste like Thai shrimp paste, Akasa is
known for his spontaneity, ready warmth, and wry unpredictable humor • Please
VISIT the Expanded BIG BIO PROFILE at the TABLE of CONTENTS. Read Part One of The Making Of . . .
Brief Profiles:
Counseling Therapy
-:¦:- The
Spiritual Adulthood Project ~ is where I can offer Buddhist based
'Alternative' approaches to relating with Your True Core Self • One-to-One
Individual therapy • Relationship and Partnering issues • Difficult to
communicate feelings • Disheartened anxious insecure Wounded Spirit • Therapy
for "Non-Ordinary", "Uncommon People" • 'Rebels' 'Creatives'
'Sensitives' cerebral verbal artistic gifted ~ and Unhappy people •
"Mindfulness" really works
to cultivate a calm, kind, wise, spacious, fearless "Big Good-Hearted
Mind".
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What About Uncertain Times ?
" It was the best of times,
It was the worst of times,
It was the age of wisdom,
It was the age of foolishness,
It was the epoch of belief,
It was the epoch of incredulity,
It was the season of Light,
It was the season of Darkness,
It was the spring of hope,
It was the winter of despair,
We had everything before us,
We had nothing before us,
We were all going direct to
Heaven,
We were all going direct the
other way -
In short, the period was so
far -:¦:-
just like the present period.
~ Sir Charles Dickens ~
A Tale of Two Cities (1859)
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Hi ~ I’M JUST GETTING STARTED
by filling my plastic water bottle and
sitting in one of my favorite places.
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INSTRUCTIONS # 5 Reading Out Loud
If you graze these pages and scroll n' roll around in
this site -
follow some of it along - ponder a bit down a very
articulate path -
then some words catch your eye - an image of a
feeling from
a different time from now - as you breathe and sit
immobile,
your body a pleasant mass of soft meditative sensation -
you space out to go in, as you invite a sweet mild trance
to embrace you - remembering your ‘mindfulness’ by
wiggling your toes that invoke flocks of feeling images
within you flow, breathe the silence, settle down gently
into open space way out in between the words - the
sounds of silence, the sensations of feeling, observe
the images but don’t touch, just watch reflect ponder
contemplate but don’t stay to long as Knowing
appears all by itself . . .
What is the True Nature of Life ?
“Never gave it a
thought”
Sure you have….
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Besides the illuminating inspiring little readings on
this site, and besides the details in this site pertaining to your possible
being here at some time - there's a lot of short snippets of good poetry and pithy
phrases in here to inspire and uplift you - and go for rides in your iPhone - so
please go sit still somewhere, breathe, slow down, breathe, listen to the
silence, breathe, notice the incredible naturalness of everything, and
intelligently nourish your Spirit also….
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“And then the day came
when the risk to remain
tight in a bud
was more painful
than the risk
it took to blossom” ~ Anais Nin
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Maybe you're an
UNCOMMON PERSON ....
The “Uncommon
Person” / “The Non-Ordinary Person”
Already Feels
Different -- in a Very Non-Assimilate-able Way.
Many people really do, but for the truly 'uncommon one'
it's sort of a double-whammy to carry!" ~ Abraham Maslow
• UNHAPPY
'UNCOMMON' PEOPLE are by their nature
sensitive, creative, genius, silent, smart, goofy, individualistic, righteously
impatient yet newly empathic, higher-consciousness oriented people gaining
ground with sacred Grace - artistic, intellectual, autistically techy,
stylishly awkward, mystical, musical, poetic, and certainly can be real
spiritual or real ugly like the rest of us can be.
• So you’d probably need an authentic 'Non-traditional Therapist' who
understands “non-mainstream”, non-Matrix lifestyles -- and who is deeply
empathic and genuinely understands ‘uncommon' and ‘unusual’ or ‘non-ordinary’ people
- who are quite unique or gifted, yet unhappy people.
• You may be a
very 'individual' person who feels very naturally inward, spiritual
oriented - and yet you're struggling to get ‘worldly’ problems/emotional issues
handled realistically and with integrity as well -- yet without you having to
commit to any spiritual path whatsoever.
• As a contemporary Healer of sorts - of the unsure Mind
and of the broken Heart. Yet I offer NO
promises or religious prescriptions - not even some evangelical dogma drama.
I offer ‘Nothing’ to ‘Believe’ in. That’s
a Buddhist pun. ‘Nothing’ - just
the emergence of your own individual ‘true knowing’ and personal excellence. I
want to assist you in discovering a 'natural unfolding' of unshakable balance,
boundless wisdom and joy. And your innate good humor - Liberating a new sense
of caring and connectedness with yourself, other people and the universe. An
expanded inner acceptance and outer effectiveness.
‘RAW QUALITIES OF GOOD BEING’ We All Have
• Yet still, us Unhappy 'Uncommon' folk hold a small but rapidly
growing niche market in the “developing consciousness” industry - so we're not
exactly the ordinary 'Retail' majority. In all kindness to Target shoppers, the
masses are still buying into it, buying it, bought-in, still living on the bought
on credit larger grid - what the Dalai Lama calls The Suffering Consumer -
"Consumers" - people strongly subject to the lures and addictive pulls
of Desire and Attachment, by indulgence or necessity. Capitalism totally
depends on them. “Mindfulness teaches us to let them go and stress less. Notice
how many Zen Zafu meditation cushions and Yoga mats are being sold lately. . .
• You, by the way, are innately blessed with the precious
‘raw qualities of good being’ that
you may unknowingly DO possess and host. And probably don’t know it or the
depths of it. That is an under-developed
area of repair work we will be actively working on. Fortunately, the whole
world really is watching ( and that's a huge form of 'participation' also,
please don't discount it ) There’s good people out there. There is a genuine
Waking-up happening. More so soon than ever. Now we are all globally touched by
it. The social media is re-birthing newly minted curious cyber babies into what
is hopefully an ever-constant, continuing, community ‘conversation’ that is now
visibly, audibly out of the Dark and on a wobbling enlightenment course,
fumbling into the Light -- and you and me with it, on some level or other.
• Today,the young beouiois swar
Millennials are an obsession-prone, precarious, precious pool of new human
resource for training and cultivating sincerely talented, novice ’Bodhisattva’ compassion-energy,
ready for downloading and absorbing some of the planet’s most ancient wisdom ways
towards fulfilling non-conditional ( unconditional ) happiness. The Boomers are
busy modeling for the Gen X ,,,and my father’s Depression and anything earlier than
1950 is as they say, History. Americans are historically illiterate anyway,
and the Millennials have no practical motivation to reference what came before
them. That leaves me at the beginning of the end of it all. I’m old. My
students are 27, I’m 75. The first to go. leaves me at te end of it all. I’m next to go.
settled in, Millennials, some of them are filled with such compassionate
energy, idealistic intensity, and a grounded integrity focused on their 'Causes'. Their sincerity
is adding to the cyber technology with their own Loving-kindness potential. “Good
goods, these kids got…” my Uncle Max would say
• Bless ALL The
Arts and it's myriad Lovers -- yes, we're still here as Angelic
Trouble-makers - the Activists, Radicals, Progressives, the Lefties and the
Movement people. They 'usta call us Avant Garde, and that's a heavy mantle to
carry - seriously - without a clearly defined, yet natural "identity"
in hand that's authentically Real at the same time. One major difficulty is if
I'm psychologically disfigured, disoriented in some way, I can't really see the
deeper happiness potential right there in myself and others, especially if the
damage is still semi suppressed and not well Life-managed or Self-regulated --
or Happy.
" You need to find out What, Why and Who you are.
And are not. And then put that all aside." said Dr. Jung _________________________________
“NOTHING” -
Even tho’, as a contemporary Healer of sorts -
of the unsure Mind and of the broken Heart -
Yet I offer NO
promises or religious prescriptions -
‘Nothing’ - I offer
‘Nothing’ to ‘Believe’ in.
That’s a Buddhist
pun - that opens a whole
other discussion doorway.
‘Nothing’ -
just the emergence
of your own individual
‘true knowing’ and personal excellence.
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" THE GREATEST
RISK IS NOT TAKING ONE! "
SOME IMPORTANT
Preliminary DETAILS ~
or just skip 'em and Keep Reading . . .
• I’m a ONE MAN
SHOP ~ Always have been.
I Counsel both Adult Women and Men In
One-to-One
Individual Therapy sessions
Buddhist Counseling sessions and
Mindfulness Practice as a Therapy
Buddhist Dharma Life-Coaching
• Individual
Personal Therapy
• Relationship
Counseling for
Couples, Partnering issues,
Gender and Identity issues.
Verbal, inter-active, face to face,
very personal, kind and caring
as well as ‘tough-love’ - and
appropriate directive ‘tasks’
and even homework - in clear,
hopefully effective sessions.
“Relationships” can be difficult.
Period. Everyone knows that.
What’s In The Box ?
• These counseling and therapy sessions have a strong Buddhist informed theoretical base, as
well as good Western modalities like psycho-dynamic analysis and CBT (cognitive
behavioral therapy ) spinoffs. I use “Mindfulness” approaches to approach the
highly dissatisfied mind, discomforted feelings, and disruptive emotions while
they’re in ’process’. Later on you’re most welcome to move on to group meditation and
sharing sessions if you wish, as your tolerances’ get more fit.
• At “Spiritual Adulthood” we offer a uniquely combined
counseling an innovative, holistic, Asian-based ‘spiritual variation' of
therapy grounded in pragmatic, practical Buddhist psychology. Created for
intelligent people - sensitive people - creative people - odd, uncommon unhappy
people…
“NOTHING” -
Even tho’, as a contemporary Healer of sorts -
of the unsure Mind and of the broken Heart -
Yet I offer NO
promises or religious prescriptions -
‘Nothing’ - I offer
‘Nothing’ to ‘Believe’ in.
That’s a Buddhist
pun - that opens a whole
other discussion
doorway. ‘Nothing’ -
just the emergence
of your own individual
‘true knowing’ and personal excellence.
______________________________
I practice as a
Buddhist minister / pastoral counselor,
not as a licensed MFT or PhD clinical psychologist. I take in a much broader cultural
scope than just the psychological. I have to address the sociology / anthropology
of it all - What got it to be this way ? The cultivation of a very contemporary
metaphysical Spirit in this difficult modern media-driven society we live in,
is a necessity. What will that look like
?
• Re-educating your
Spirit also, gives your Spirits a chance to be a wider, stronger, well informed
inner-platform and inner-space to work with. ‘Realistically’ or
‘Meta-physically’. Both are the supreme, indigenous creations of cultures based
in one local regional area or another to work on their Healing Arts organically
and renovate YOU with many millennia worth of Spirit-treasure - on indigenously
-undisturbed in a limited cultural isolation. Hey traded for medicinals and
leaves for tools and textiles in small hamlets if there was a road in… only
symbolic. Good spiritual TV.
• At “Spiritual Adulthood” we offer a uniquely combined
counseling an innovative, holistic, Asian-based ‘spiritual variation' of
therapy grounded in pragmatic, practical Buddhist psychology. Created for
intelligent people - sensitive people - creative people - odd, uncommon unhappy
people…
You may want to
talk with someone - like me - someone who has training in both worlds:
psychology AND spirituality.
• This is not a
traditional Western licensed clinical psychotherapy --
nor is it
'Religious'. ‘Religious’ suggests it’s being done on their clock, on their
time. ‘Spiritual’ suggests it is happening on your time internally,
individually, it’s all about you -- It is 'Spiritual', which takes in
everything ‘sacred’ human culture and benevolent well intentioned thought has
ever created.
• What is it ? This form of counseling therapy can be called
many things --
Spiritual-based Counseling • Psycho/Spiritual Therapy •
Spiritual Direction • Spiritual-oriented Life Coaching • Medicine men and women
• Tribal Shaman’s work and practitioners in the Healing Arts the world over.
The Good Ones doing good healing practices • It's been going on effectively for
1000's of years ...
• ‘True’ Happiness is totally ( well, almost
totally ) taught as being independent and free of the unavoidable effects of
‘everyday’ circumstances, conditions and compromises - really 'true liberated freedom'
as they've spoken about in Asian teachings for millennia. ‘Un-True’ Happiness
isn’t a Freedom inside us, it’s bound to erroneous stuff by shackled
conditions. And we obsessively worry it all the time.
Talk with someone who
has training in both worlds:
psychology AND spirituality !
" THE GREATEST
RISK IS NOT TAKING ONE! "
SOME IMPORTANT
Preliminary DETAILS ~
or just skip 'em and Keep Reading . . .
• I’m a ONE MAN
SHOP ~ Always have been.
I Counsel both Adult Women and Men in
One-on-One
Individual Therapy sessions
Buddhist Counseling sessions and
Mindfulness Practice as a Therapy
Buddhist Dharma Life-Coaching
• Individual
Personal Therapy
• Relationship
Counseling for
Couples, Partnering issues,
Gender and Identity issues.
Verbal, inter-active, face to face,
very personal, kind and caring
as well as ‘tough-love’ - and
appropriate directive ‘tasks’
and even homework - in clear,
hopefully effective sessions.
“Relationships” can be difficult.
Period. Everyone knows that.
These are counseling and therapy sessions with a strong
Buddhist informed theoretical base, as well as good Western modalities like
psycho-dynamic analysis and CBT ( cognitive-behavioral therapy ) spinoffs. I
use “Mindfulness” approaches to approach the highly dissatisfied mind,
discomforted feelings, and disruptive emotions right in their ’process’. Later
on you’re most welcome to move on to group meditation and sharing sessions if
you wish, as your ‘tolerances’ get more fit.
________________________
PLEASE NOTE ~
A Few House
Responsibilities - Here’s the Deal…
Dear Gals or Guys ~ Glad You’re Here !
And I gotta’ be
sorta strict-ish about your own life-plan arrangements affecting your even being
here, work time and drive time kvetching, money issues, and other important
‘engine maintenance’ responsibilities - all so we have the way more clear - we
have the freedom to actually ‘Work’ the session - and not get too caught up and
fuss around with the logistics of Details -- unless of course this is a part of
the way you roll…
• ALL counseling sessions are all 'Live' counseling
visits at my little ‘Shrine’. I don’t do house calls. No Skype. My steady
counseling clients are limited to our immediate local area - so you can be on
time and I can run a tight little old guy’s ship. Thank you for hearing this ~
really.
• PHONE
COUNSELING-sessions will probably happen later on, here and there - but only when necessary for 'established
clients' with me.
• I can gladly offer
you a First-Time FREE phone consultation to local Los Angeles area
inquirers. 1-310-450-2268. I will
certainly need to talk with you on the phone first. There is no first free
session. It's all about developing a solid, sound 'ground' of genuine communication
-- and what it is to be a responsible client.
• Please ASK ME
PLENTY of QUESTIONS, Difficult Questions, and really feel into if
"Spiritual Adulthood" sessions might be helpful for you --
• FEE: Ongoing
regular steady sessions are by a mutually arranged fee, date and time by
appointment only.
• I can offer AFFORDABLE NEGOTIABLE sliding scale lower fee sessions for those who really need it. I am
not greedy. I do not take insurance coverage, health plans or Medicare, Obama
Care, HMOs etc. I do not accept any electronic plastic as a payment means -
only cash of check. I must charge full going fee For A First Time Visit. I can
discuss sliding scales after that.
• I usually offer
a much more generous EXTENDED SESSION-TIME than is usual... Most sessions are given much more than the
standard therapy-hour's time (:55 min ). We offer you sessions usually about
one hour+20 min (:80 min) to allow plenty of time to go really deep as you need
to during your session that particular day... without feeling cut off or
hurried out the door..
• A FIRST-TIME
PHONE INQUIRY ( FREE ) is always good to have with you - and much more
immediate for me to respond to you, if you briefly write down your issues and
some feelings before you call me. Please do not email instead, the live voice
is so important to hear --- ( ambivalent emails back and forth really
does not work well at all ) Please simply PHONE
ME - and that may take courage on your part, but ‘courage’ is what we
will also be working on… we'd need to talk 'Live' first - if you sincerely wish
to inquire further.
• BEST PHONE TIMES
for reaching me on any particular day:
NOON to 6 PM
weekdays -- usually Tuesday thru Thursday.
Usually 6:00 pm being the last client of the day.
Friday as a reschedule day or as a spill-over day.
These are the best guidelines to try’n reach me --
1-310-450-2268.
Then again, TRY 10
minutes before the hour.
• And I just may be in session when you call.
LEAVE A MESSAGE
+ phone number + email.
When can you best be reached.
That’s what this is basically about at core -
Becoming
Reachable.
‘How can I reach
you ?’ --
and please speak very slowly and clearly.
It is important that you’re going try your best
to make yourself ‘accessible’ -- so I can reach you
-- and you can reach us -- and best, you can 'reach'
yourself.
Buddha Learned
How to Become
an Easy to Reach Person.
No barriers, No protection.
Nothing to protect.
Actually, there was no Buddha.
• We can possibly refer
you to qualified Buddhist counselors
or therapists in your own local or regional area if you
email me.
Again… "The Greatest Risk Is Not Taking
One"
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WHAT CONTINUES to FOLLOW is going to take some more
reading time - and
some more patience
on your part to read and sort yourself thru.
You do not have to
read it all at once - Read at your leisure.
TAKE IT IN SMALL
BITES, GRAZE, SCROLL and SKIP AROUND IN IT --
YOU'LL CERTAINLY KNOW A LOT MORE about what you need
when you're done
reading some/all of this ... hang in there
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BE COURAGEOUS !
" As human beings, our greatness lies
not so much in
being able to remake the world...
as a being able to
remake ourselves.
WE must become the
changes
we want to see in
the world " ~ Gandhi
" You began
as a Creation, now become a Creator.
Never wait at a
barrier " ~ Rumi
" The limits
of the possible can only be defined
by going beyond
them into the impossible." ~ Arthur C. Clarke
“ Good, but impossible resolutions, are simply checks
that men draw on a
bank where they have no account.
Start with the
eminently 'possible'. ~ Oscar Wilde
" While one
person hesitates
because they feel
insecure and inferior,
the other is busy
making mistakes aplenty
and becoming quite
superior." ~ The Tao
“DESTINY” is every step we’re taking
and going thru
right now to get there.”
~ Grandfather Bearheart, Creek elder
" There is no such thing as a 'problem'
without a 'gift'
for you in its hands.
Sometimes you have
problems
because you need
their gifts.
It is through
gifts that you grow." ~ Richard Bach
THE ‘PROBLEM’
“ BRING YOU LIFE
BACK
FROM THE 'EXILE'
OF YOUR SPIRIT
and INTO A SACRED
BALANCE AGAIN ! “ ~ Poet Laureate Robert Bly
• WHATEVER IT IS, YOU'RE "A-NOT-SO-HAPPY-PERSON"
Many, many folks
aren’t. We're in very agitated, anxious, turbulent, uncertain times right now.
Career &
Life-Purpose Despair, Emotional Stuff, Mid-Life Changes or Painful Relationship
Dilemmas
personally don't make it easier. So please, go 'see' somebody & really
start
working it out.
'You' - really being heard from way deep inside and coached forward &
through by a
counseling therapist who can deeply understand you – human to human.
So get out of your
own 'protective' self-imposed isolation: “I can do it by myself” mantra -
reinforced by ego-pride-shame-hurt-loss-fear-cycles
& just put yourself into counseling sessions for awhile. It'll be good
for you - you'll get some relief, some resolution and even some joy and
laughter.
This is where you
can work
on your Stuff and
your Soul
on a 'frequent
enough' basis
to make a really
significant,
noticeable
difference.
There is no
obligation to have
a free
phone-consultation with us
to see if this
could feel good
and workable for
you...
ARE YOU FEELING
‘DISSED’? ~
DISAPPOINTED DISCOURAGED DISTRESSED Disagreeable
Discomforted Disconnected Disconcerted Discontent Disdainful Disgruntled
Disgusted Disharmonious and Disheartened -- Disillusioned Disintegrated
Distressed Dismayed Dismal Disorganized Disoriented Disregarded Dissatisfied
Distant Distraught Distrustful and very Disturbed About It All --
This whole ‘Dis’ this or ‘Dis’ that thing - about your
life. You CAN change it! We can help support and assist you. 'Therapy' is a
huge personal challenge - but YOU DO have to show up for yourself to make it
happen.
"Eighty
percent of success is just showing up" ~ Woody Allen
Please,
Get some quality
counseling therapy -
somewhere,
anywhere -
that may be a
place for you to start.
Be very welcome to
inquire about us.
Again, maybe you
are
a very UNCOMMON
PERSON ....
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" Every
community needs
a group of angelic
troublemakers "
~ Bayard Rustin,
black activist social reformer
"Our constant
'Inner-Inquiry' is our Passion
and our Passion is
our Life-task. All the rest
is the wonderful
madness of art." ~ Henry James
"Be daring,
be different, be impractical, be anything!
Anything that will
assert Integrity of Purpose
and imaginative
vision against the play-it-safers,
the creatures of
the commonplace,
the slaves of the
ordinary." ~ Sir Cecil Beaton
"Be not
afraid of absurdity - do not shrink from the fantastic!
Within a dilemma -
choose the most unheard-of,
the most audacious
solution!
De l'audace! De
l'audace!
Et encore de
l'audace! Be audacious!" ~ Karen Blixen
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____________
WHAT CONTINUES to
FOLLOW is going to take some more reading time - and
some more patience
on your part to read and sort yourself thru.
You do not have to
read it all at once - Read at your leisure.
TAKE IT IN SMALL
BITES, GRAZE, SCROLL and SKIP AROUND IN IT --
YOU'LL CERTAINLY
KNOW A LOT MORE about what you need
when you're done
reading some/all of this ... hang in there
______________________________________
Another Basic Problem:
Emotions get to
overrun and run thinking.
Thoughts get so
embedded in feelings ~
Confusion,
hopeless, numb... angry and sad
MAYBE YOU'VE
BECOME SO OVERWHELMINGLY ‘IDENTIFIED’
and OVER-INVOLVED IN YOUR OWN DIFFICULT 'LIFE-STORY'
That You Can’t See
The Forest Because of All The Trees!
Your 'Story' of
being such a driven 'Winner' or a victimized 'Loser' - or just a plain Nobody
’out there’ - you're just so overwhelmed, you’ve become under-whelming -
feeling so isolated - that you just plain 'hurt'. Maybe you’ve lost the path,
or forgotten the way, or just feel so ineffective in your 'deeper'
inner-search. Or you’ve just never yet really sought out Who ‘You’ really,
really are - ‘in here’. Inside.
RE-DISCOVERING and
DEFINING "Yourself" - totally defined in/on your OWN TERMS ! ( not
society’s term’s or religion's terms or family’s terms ). YOUR Own Terms is
what 'Therapy of the Spirit' is largely about ! Therapy of the 'True' Spirit is
really where ALL mind / spirit / soul-healing MUST start. True therapy has to
start and end with the Heart ! It’s been that way in every culture all through
time! It's just only that until very recently, the 'choices' of that kind of
healings have always been so few and restricted in availability to either
doctors or shamans or the church. No longer. Every approach world-wide is now
available to you! It's from this very Big Approach that you can truly find
yourself and then truly give back to others in a valuable, clear, easy-going
and natural way ... true 'Goodness'. Faith in ourselves simply as
Humans-restored. And it can be 'Spiritual' AND YET totally NON-RELIGIOUS..
Please consider that!
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“The SPIRITUAL ADULTHOOD PROJECT” is a Buddhist-based
Psycho/Spiritual oriented Counseling and Alternative Therapy. The world renown
and respected ancient tradition of Buddhist Mindfulness Psychology is a path of
cultivating a 'transcendent' - a 'higher sanity' - a very clear-seeing ability
for yourself. By developing this wisdom understanding, you are now available to
generate a much more all-inclusive compassion - which leads to an authentic
peace in ourselves, which we can then extend out to our family, friends and the
world. Learning and using a 2500 year-old tested self-development approaches
and techniques towards a clear, wholesome, peaceful, joyful mind. Traditional
Buddhism is absolutely NOT a ‘religious path’ but more of a practical,
pragmatic, highly intelligent ‘Humanism’ - There are NO gods and NO worship and
NO religious superstitions involved in anything we offer in any way whatsoever.
Unless you do want to hear it. Working archetype-forms that are really just
good stories…. Or not. The Buddha ( 528 BC ) himself was an atheist. There are
some challenging bewilderments in Buddhism for the mind. Zen is founded on it….
Just discovering and uncovering the essence of a sane, wise, peaceful, pure
spirit that is YOU.
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“And then the day came
when the risk to
remain tight in a
bud
was more than the
risk
it took to
blossom” ~ Anais Nin
_____________________________
" FORGIVENESS
Is Giving Up
All Hope For A
Better Past! " ~ Aba Gayle
“It is still up to you to choose
to join with
‘truth’ or with ‘illusion’.
But remember that to choose one
is to let go of
the other.” ~ A Course In Miracles
“ If Nothing Changes, Nothing Changes !
When the Way comes
to an end, then change -
having changed,
you pass through." ~ I Ching
ABOUT WHO WE ARE
and HOW WE THINK:
A JOYFUL
DISCLAIMER and A Statement of Philosophy ...
Who We Are In Our
Hearts and In Our Heads
as a
'Spiritually-Based' Counseling Service ~
that too is
certainly going to affect you !
The Buddhist’s
Theory of Everything.
We are truly
'non-denominational' and 'non-religious' and welcome all journeyers of all
Ways,
or especially even
those of no way. 'Spiritual' doesn't mean 'Religion'. Actually, you can't even
become a 'Buddhist', as that too is just another 'label'. The ONE Web of
existence, life & consciousness has many 'Names' in many different
world cultures. The ONE Web 'itself', really has NO name at all. All cultures
on the planet call it ‘The One’ ( 1. ) So we just simply call it
"EVERYTHING". All of 'creation' itself. ‘Creator’ &
‘Creation’ is all the same thing, the same One. We simply leave it at that. One
is One and there is nothing outside of it. It's All ONE. You gotta’ love it
all. We try to love it All. Most of the time, piece by piece in peace.
" There is no
such thing as a strictly 'secular' therapy - or that a therapy is
'non-spiritual' .. That’s where establishment psychological sciences are
poetically naïve. EVERY 'therapy' is spiritual if it deals with matters of the
heart and emotions and feelings. Buddhist approaches in particular, are
'spiritual' BUT non-religious. The historical Buddha was a Humanist & a
Pragmatist. There's a freedom of intelligence & openness to that - a
big difference. " ~ Abraham Maslow
• WHY of ALL Possible Things - are we Buddhist-based ???
We particularly
use the Buddhist branding name, because those Asian cultures have got some of
the most skillfully mature, very grounded, least misleading, most inclusive and
the very best of the mind-healing techniques available so far - so far as we've
come across. So we use 'em. And we're still strongly very eclectic: we use many
diverse approaches - so we'll use what YOU need, not what 'we' like best or
'believe in'. We're on your side! We practice as Buddhist ministers not as
licensed MFT or clinical psychologists.
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Psychological
Inflexibility: an A.C.T View of Suffering
The core
conception of ACT is that psychological suffering is usually caused by the
interface between human language and cognition, and the control of human
behavior by previous direct experience. And failure. ‘Psychological
inflexibility’ is then to emerge from experiential avoidance, cognitive
entanglement, attachment of a conceptualized ‘self’, loss of contact with the
present, and the resulting failure to take needed behavioral steps in accord
with core values. An extensive research program on a theory of convoluted
language and cognition, contemporary Relational Frame Theory (RFT / ACT ) takes
the view that trying to change difficult thoughts and feelings as a means of
coping can be counter productive, but new, powerful alternatives are available
- including ACT: acceptance, mindfulness, cognitive defusion, values, and
committed action therapies..
Cognitive fusion
-- the domination of stimulus functions based on literal language even when
that process is a harmful, experiential avoidance -- the phenomenon that occurs
when a person is unwilling to remain in contact with particular private
experiences and takes steps to alter the form or frequency of these events and
the contexts that occasion them, even when doing so causes psychological harm
the domination of a conceptualized self over the "self as context"
that emerges from perspective taking and relational frames lack of values,
confusion of goals with values, and other values problems that can underlie the
failure to build broad and flexible repertoires and an inability to build a
larger unit of behavior through commitment to behavior that moves in the
direction of chosen values
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We'll gladly give
you a FREELY offered Local Phone Consultation –
No Obligation ! - or call to set up an actual appointment
• 310-450-2268
The phone is much
more personal - and some quality 'personal attention'
is probably what
you need for yourself right now -- more 'closeness'
rather than
distance... We do know that when you're feeling vulnerable, skittish or just
plain bad and sad -- sometimes 'reaching out' is hard -- please, do take up the
challenge!
"Take the
first step in faith.
You don't have to
see the whole staircase
-- just take the
first step." ~ Martin Luther King
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we also offer to
the community ~
• Prior to Akasa Levi’s partial retirement from group meditation
teaching in 2014 with a Parkinson’ diagnosis - he Creatively-minded
Corporate/Business Consultation: Human Resource Resolution
and 'Spirit In The
Workplace' development. Very way out of the box stuff. We also consult
on the American
'spiritual mind-set', 'The Crisis In Faith', 'Loss of Classical Mythologies
to Technology',
'What's Wrong With Our Minds and Culture?' and current 'religious trends'
(trends that are
quite unconscious, un self-identified & dreadfully naive within the
contemporary
American/Western cultural praadigm as a whole.
• We Counsel all manifestations of alternative &
emerging life-styles: mixed racial/religious
partnerings
& marriages; gay & bi curious, str8 still exploring. It's the
21st Century:
It's a big wide
open world out there now... We offer bridge-building between communities:
people of all
colors, religions, diverse cultures & ethnic origins. A pluralistic
society brings
so many awesome
enrichments as well as struggles of balance & new found respect ...
"If you do
not see God
in the next person
you meet,
you need look no
further." ~ Gandhi
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“La vraie générosité envers l'avenir consiste à tout
donner au présent.”
“True generosity
towards the future is to give everything to the present.” ~ Albert Camus
" THE
GREATEST RISK IS NOT TAKING ONE! "
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QUOTES ~ The Gift
of Wise Words
To measure you by
your smallest deed
is to judge the
ocean by the frailty of it's foam.
To judge you by
your failures is to cast blame
upon the seasons
for their inconsistencies ~ Kahlil
Gibran
What good you do
is of little significance,
But it is very
important that you do it.
WE must be the
change you want
to see in the world
" ~ Mahatma Gandhi
"If we have no peace,
it is because we
have forgotten
that we belong to
each other." ~ Mother Teresa
"You
yourself,
as much as anyone
in the entire Universe,
deserves your OWN
affection, care and love.
You can explore
the whole universe looking
for someone who is
more deserving of your
love and affection
than you are yourself...
and you will not
find that person anywhere.
To be maximum
effective -
the Practice of
Loving-Kindness
must absolutely
begin with yourself!" ~ The Buddha
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“Who was born
first, 'You' or 'The World'?
As long as you
give first place to ‘The World’
-- you are bound by it.
Once you realize,
beyond all trace of doubt,
that the ‘world’
is in you --
-- and not 'you'
in the world,
right then and
there, you are out of it.
Of course, your
body remains in the world
and 'of' the
world,
but YOU are
not d-e-l-u-d-e-d by it.”
~ Nisargadatta
Maharaj
They drew a circle
that shut me out --
Calling me a
heretic, rebel, a thing to flout.
But Love and I had
the wit to win --
We drew a circle
that took them in.
~ Edwin Markham
"Outwitted"
"Do not look
back in Anger,
or forward in
Fear,
but around in
Awareness" ~ James Thurber
"At night
make me fearlessly one
with the Darkness
~
In the morning
make me
optimistically one
with the Light" ~ Wendell Berry
You may want to
hi-lite, copy and send
the quote below to
people you know...
some of the wisest
guidance you will
ever read, put to
personal use or offer.
Here it is ~
"Be patient
toward all that is unsolved in your heart.
Try to love the
'Questions' themselves - like locked rooms
and like books
that are written in a foreign language.
Do not, just right
now, seek for the Answers.
The 'Answers' which
cannot now be given to you -
because you would
not be able to actually ‘live’ them.
And the point is
to ‘live’ everything -
experiencing everything.
At present, you
need to live the Questions themselves.
Perhaps you will
then gradually, without even noticing it,
live along some
day into the true Answer. Your answer."
~ Rilke's
"Letters to a Young Poet" (1903-1908)
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(Spiritual Emergency Network
at Esalen
Institute in Big Sur). We are an outreach-project of “The Laughing Buddha
Sangha”
in Santa Monica, CA 90405 - and utilize the
practice-approaches offered by Spirit Rock Meditation Center in Woodacre/Santa
Rosa, CA. Our favorite meditation center here in town is InsightLA.org in Santa
Monica about 5 blocks away right up the street.
♦ The LAUGHING BUDDHA SANGHA - guided by AKASA LEVI, a
former ordained American Buddhist forest monk who lived many years in rural
Asia. Akasa coaches a small, salon-sized Satsang sitting group for Buddhist
Mindfulness Meditation with practice discussion and Dharma theory study. Now a
feisty 75, this eccentric, really funny ole' Dharma-mentor teaches in his
little meditation shrine room filled with statues of the Buddha. He invites
anyone - beginners welcome - practicing an 'awareness meditation' to come sit.
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