" The Journey Itself
IS the
Destination! "
PSYCHOTHERAPY TODAY
Many Kinds and Types
Much in contemporary transpersonal approaches are derived from Buddhist teaching because Buddhist thought tends to be focused largely on internal experience -- and in this way transcends the context of the organized ‘religion’ per se, recommending we explore our very ‘selves’ --directly-- through the Buddhist approach to psychotherapy which is simply based on the experiencial core awareness teachings of the Buddha.
Much in contemporary transpersonal approaches are derived from Buddhist teaching because Buddhist thought tends to be focused largely on internal experience -- and in this way transcends the context of the organized ‘religion’ per se, recommending we explore our very ‘selves’ --directly-- through the Buddhist approach to psychotherapy which is simply based on the experiencial core awareness teachings of the Buddha.
We will start with our own Beginner’s Mind -- with Buddha nature, the
core ethics, mindfulness, perception and karmic will, dhyana, compassion, love,
wisdom and letting go.
Mark Epstein
“Going to Pieces
Without Falling
Apart”
be mindFULLY within
short excerpts from --
Psychotherapy Overview -- as it is Today
Contemporary Psycho/Spiritual Counseling
short excerpts from --
Psychotherapy Overview -- as it is Today
Contemporary Psycho/Spiritual Counseling
Insight Sees
from the Inside
Vi’pass-ana Meditation:
SANSKRIT -- Ana’pana-sati
Vi’pass-ana Meditation:
SANSKRIT -- Ana’pana-sati
or Mindfulness with Breathing.
Vipassana means INSIGHT--
Seeing from the INSIDE. Vipassana means INSIGHT--
Very, very gently keep turning
your ‘attention’ fully around --
Do a
180 and bring the attention --
again
and again mindFULLY within,
to
watch quietly from the INSIDE --
to
‘See’ consciously
from
within -- with INSIGHT.
THE
JOB OF THE PSYCHOTHERAPIST is to provide a safe and sacred space for healing, to
listen skillfully and respectfully, to help clients become aware of their own
patterns and belief systems, to offer support that helps each client grow in
their unique, individual way, and to facilitate change.
THE CLIENT'S JOB is to come as you are, bringing all of your joy, pain,
beauty, awkwardness, sanity and neurosis to each session with a willingness to
work with what is painful and difficult. A skillful therapist recognizes that
you are the expert on your life and is not there to "fix" you but to offer
guidance and protective accompaniment as you make the journey to your own
healing.
mindfulness
mindfulness
~Sati.
be mindFULLY within
Contemplative
Psychotherapy
encourages
us to be present,
mindful
and curious about
ourselves,
just as we are.
As we
befriend our own
humanness, we develop
compassion
for ourselves
and
others, and opening
the
door to healing and change.
--- ‘Cuz…
If Nothing Changes,
Nothing Changes ! ...
and that's a really Radical Acceptance type of OK too
Personal Psycho/Spiritual
Counseling - For the many people who come to do the program a majority go
through various mental and emotional changes while doing the fast. Most ask for
some counseling. Counseling is given according to Buddhist principles which
guide the individual into themselves. Buddhist counseling helps the individual
let go of attachments by focusing on the present moment. A peaceful environment
is conducive for this work, providing the opportunity for reflection, for
individual meditation and for aspiring affirmations and visualizations that
assist each person to let go of a hindering past and unsure future realities.
Psychotherapy /
Counseling
Psychotherapy today is as much about
wholeness and wellness as it is about relieving psychological distress. Many
people come to psychotherapy with a desire to function more effectively in
daily life, to develop greater self-understanding and to build satisfying
relationships.
Vi’pass-ana Meditation-based Therapy:
SANSKRIT and PALI -- Ana’pana-sati or Mindfulness with Breathing.
Vipassana means INSIGHT-- Seeing from the inside. Very, very gently keep turning your ‘attention’ fully around -- Do a 180 and bring the attention -- again and again mindFULLY within, to watch quietly from the INSIDE -- to ‘See’ consciously from within -- INSIGHT.
SANSKRIT and PALI -- Ana’pana-sati or Mindfulness with Breathing.
Vipassana means INSIGHT-- Seeing from the inside. Very, very gently keep turning your ‘attention’ fully around -- Do a 180 and bring the attention -- again and again mindFULLY within, to watch quietly from the INSIDE -- to ‘See’ consciously from within -- INSIGHT.
Psychotherapy is about relieving
unnecessary suffering,
healing from trauma and working through life's challenges.
healing from trauma and working through life's challenges.
Contemplative Psychotherapy
Contemplative
Psychotherapy is based on the 2500-year-old wisdom teachings of Buddhist
psychology as applied to Western psychotherapy. In this tradition, what is most
important is cultivating the ability to make friends with oneself and one's own
experience - with the fear, anger, hatred and confusion that are inevitable
parts of life as well as the brilliance, wisdom and clarity. Rather than
continuing in patterns of pushing away or ignoring what is painful and
unpleasant or grasping after what is lacking, contemplative psychotherapy
encourages us to be present, mindful and curious about ourselves, just as we
are. As we befriend our own humanness, we develop compassion for ourselves and
others, opening the door to healing and change.
Holistic Counseling
Holistic Counselors merge many fields
of study into their therapeutic approach. While Louisiana, in particular, does
not have a designation for Holistic Practitioners, many Psychotherapists have
expanded their boundaries to incorporate other disciplines into their practices
in an effort to treat the whole "Self." Licensed Psychiatrists,
Psychologists, Social Workers and Counselors are progressively blending their
practices with Movement Therapies, Yoga, Massage Therapy, Breath-work and a
variety of other bodywork therapies, such as Reiki, Healing Touch and Rolfing.
Other practitioners have focused more on the sensory information and have
combined their work with Neurolinguistic Programming, EMDR, Thought Field
Therapy, Sound Therapy, Light Therapy, Art Therapy and Color Therapy.
Additionally,
Psychotherapists may use Aromatherapy, Nutritional therapy, Feng Shui,
Meditation and Spirituality to augment their practices to better meet the
individual needs of the client. As the therapeutic journey is about growth and
healing, the blending of disciplines allows clients to have more choices in
their quest toward wholeness..
There are many styles
and schools of psychotherapy, some of the most common
traditional styles being psychodynamic, Jungian, Gestalt, Ericksonion,
cognitive, behavioral and family systems. Additionally, many psychotherapists
practice in an eclectic way that allows them to draw from many schools of
thought as seems most fitting for each client.
Studies of the efficacy of psychotherapy have shown that no one school of psychotherapy is more
effective than another. What is most important is the relationship that is
formed between therapist and client and the client's willingness and ability to
change.
Some common issues
for which
psychotherapy is helpful are as follows:
psychotherapy is helpful are as follows:
- Relationships – Marriage,
Parenting Or Work
- Trauma And Loss – Death,
Divorce, Illness, Violence Or Abuse
- Identity – Personal, Career Or
Sexuality
- Psychological Pain –
Depression, Anxiety, Grief Or Stress
- Personal Development – Love,
Intimacy, Creativity Or Spirituality
- Sports Psychology –
Performance, Teamwork Or Motivation
- Physical Illness – Particularly
Chronic And Life-Threatening
The length of psychotherapy
varies greatly depending on the issues being dealt with and the goals of the
client. Frequently people are able to make substantial changes and feel better
in a relatively short period of time. Deeper, long-standing issues,
particularly when there has been much loss or trauma, or a serious commitment
to a personal growth process, may take months and even years. A skilled
psychotherapist will guide you in setting realistic goals for therapy and respect
your own judgment in determining when to end therapy.
When choosing a
psychotherapist, it is helpful to find a therapist whom you feel comfortable with
and respected by. Most therapists will offer you an opportunity to interview
them by phone or in person. Psychotherapists come from many different
backgrounds in training and theory but generally have a master's or doctorate
degree in psychology, counseling, pastoral counseling or social work. In
Colorado, all psychotherapists are required to be registered in a state-wide
database.
eTherapy Online
eTherapy is a
relatively new, rapidly expanding and powerful mode of providing excellent
therapeutic help online, using the Internet. The therapists are experts with
verifiable credentials who can give guidance and advice from most of the
therapeutic modalities that face-to-face therapists use. The means used to
facilitate the therapy are e-mails, chat rooms and video conferencing. eTherapy
can stand alone or be used in combination with many other healing techniques
and tools.
For people who,
because of physical challenge, remote location, phobias, busy life-styles, need
of specific expertise not found locally or other reasons, cannot or do not wish
to see a conventional therapist in a traditional setting, eTherapy can make the
difference between receiving expert support, advice and guidance or living in
isolation, with a feeling of being trapped. eTherapy can be the saving grace
which unlocks doors of ignorance and fear with which many people view
psychotherapy and other healing modalities. Many people think traditional
psychotherapy is too costly, too personal, too invasive, and takes up too much
time. eTherapy can be a means of getting help for those with these
considerations. eTherapy can be seen as having an expert available to you 24
hours a day, 7 days per week. It is an effective and highly valuable form of
healing which can reach and aid many people to live fuller and richer lives.
EMDR
Eye Movement
Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is one of the exciting new "power
therapies" taking the field of psychotherapy into the 21st century. During
EMDR, the client concentrates on the feelings, body sensations, negative
thoughts, and a visual representation of the problem while following a back and
forth motion of the therapist's fingers, watching a series of moving lights, or
hearing alternating tones through a set of headphones. These methods
bilaterally stimulate the brain, bringing the resources of the left and right
brain equally to focus on solving the problem.
Brief interchanges
between client and therapist are woven into the work until the disturbing
situation no longer elicits distress. That situation is then reprocessed, this
time with positive thoughts, feelings and associations. In effect, the trauma
or disturbance is reframed, and although still remembered, does not continue to
cause distress or drive addictive or other unhealthy behaviors. In addition,
EMDR often results in powerful new insights, information and understanding.
A typical course of
therapy lasts three to ten 90-minute sessions. EMDR can stand alone as a
treatment modality or be effectively incorporated into many other
psychotherapeutic approaches.
Journal Therapy ~
Reflective Writing
Journal writing can
be a powerful additional tool in the therapeutic process. It is one of the most
effective ways to stay in touch with what is going on in the present, to
clarify intentions and goals, and to work through difficult emotional issues.
Journal Therapy is the purposeful and intentional use of reflective writing to
facilitate healing. A trained Journal Therapist provides structure and
facilitates self-knowledge by guiding the writing process and offering
appropriate journal interventions. Journal Therapy is effective for clients
with a wide range of diagnoses and life issues. One of the important tasks
for persons in difficulty or transition is to tell their Story, and Journal
Therapy can provide a safe place to tell even the most painful story.
Spiritual Counseling
Spiritual counseling
provides a context within which clients are able to explore their true identity
and purpose in life. An experienced counselor is able to help the client see
difficult situations and events in life as spiritual opportunities for growth
and purification. As spiritual knowledge increases, the qualities of the higher
self become more accessible, qualities such as joy, authenticity and insight.
The spiritual counselor is able to explain such concepts as the soul, karma,
reincarnation and self-realization, and utilize these ideas in the counseling
relationship. Many techniques are used, such as visualization, prayer and
ritual to help the client go deeply into present experience and find the seeds
of transformation.
Alternative
therapies are increasingly being recognized as valuable resources in wholistic
health care by health care providers, accrediting agencies and by insurance
companies for third party payments. On a global scale, more persons are being
cared for by these alternative therapies than what has been called "Western"
therapies. A review of the more significant alternative therapies will increase
student's familiarity with therapy functions and assumptions in non-Western
cultures and provide models of health care which may be relevant to Western
cultural contexts.
Sources: Caroline
Constantine, MA, Denver CO; Jan Foster Miiller, MA.
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Mark Epstein
Going to Pieces
without Falling
Apart
Reviews
In the era of self-empowerment and the relentless glorification of self-esteem, Mark Epstein is questioning whether we have it all backward. As a psychiatrist and practicing Buddhist for 25 years, Epstein has come to believe that the self-help movement has encouraged us to spend enormous amounts of time, money, and mental energy on patching up our egos, rather than pursuing true self-awareness. Instead, Epstein suggests we carefully shatter the ego, as if it were a fat piggy bank, to see what's inside--a scary prospect for those who spend their lives in fear of falling apart. But fear not. Epstein artfully shows readers how to patch the pieces together again into a far richer and more meaningful mosaic. --Gail Hudson
In the era of self-empowerment and the relentless glorification of self-esteem, Mark Epstein is questioning whether we have it all backward. As a psychiatrist and practicing Buddhist for 25 years, Epstein has come to believe that the self-help movement has encouraged us to spend enormous amounts of time, money, and mental energy on patching up our egos, rather than pursuing true self-awareness. Instead, Epstein suggests we carefully shatter the ego, as if it were a fat piggy bank, to see what's inside--a scary prospect for those who spend their lives in fear of falling apart. But fear not. Epstein artfully shows readers how to patch the pieces together again into a far richer and more meaningful mosaic. --Gail Hudson
From the New England
Journal of Medicine
Mark Epstein recounts the story of a smart and eager professor who sought wisdom from an old Zen master. The master offered him tea and, on the professor's acceptance, poured the tea into a cup. To the professor's dismay, however, the master kept pouring the tea into an overflowing cup, even as the tea spread across the floor. ``A mind that is full cannot take in anything new,'' the master explained. ``Like this cup, you are full of opinions and preconceptions.'' Wisdom and happiness are to be found only by emptying one's cup.
Mark Epstein recounts the story of a smart and eager professor who sought wisdom from an old Zen master. The master offered him tea and, on the professor's acceptance, poured the tea into a cup. To the professor's dismay, however, the master kept pouring the tea into an overflowing cup, even as the tea spread across the floor. ``A mind that is full cannot take in anything new,'' the master explained. ``Like this cup, you are full of opinions and preconceptions.'' Wisdom and happiness are to be found only by emptying one's cup.
With this story,
Epstein illustrates what he believes is an important problem for modern Western
culture. Trained to approach life in the same way as the professor in the
parable, Westerners tend to fill their lives with things and knowledge the way
the master filled the cup with tea. In
the psychological arena, this gives rise to a sort of psychological
acquisitiveness, whereby we attempt to beef ourselves up with self-esteem,
self-confidence, self-expression, or self-control. The message of Buddhism,
Epstein argues, is that this Western tendency to build and strengthen the ego
toward the ideal of a strong, individuated self will not work. We come to
wisdom and peace of mind only by acknowledging the difficulties that are
created by the ego's blind need to control and by allowing emptiness to be
present as an inevitable and often valuable state.
Beginning with his own
sense of emptiness as a boy in high school and then
presenting a variety of Buddhist parables, clinical anecdotes, and personal examples,
Epstein recounts what he has learned so far in his lifelong journey to
understand the mind. Observations of his undergraduate classmates at Harvard,
his contacts with the Dalai Lama, his deepening ability to understand and live
in both Eastern and Western worlds during medical school and residency, and his
subsequent contact with several schools of psychoanalysis, Gestalt therapy, and
especially the writings of Winnicott -- this very personal journey reflects
Epstein's growing conviction that the Western psychological notion of what it
means to have a self is flawed. Western thought tends to pathologize what is
understood in Buddhism as a universally human starting point for wisdom and
self-understanding.
The “Deficiencies'' Of Childhood
and The ``Errors'' Of Adult Life
often do not represent darkness or void, as they initially seem to, but rather, are occasions that create the possibility of life and freedom. Human urges and conflicts are not necessarily pathologic; instead, they reflect the movement of life as it attempts to become manifest within us. The point is to allow the conflicts to surface and become visible.
and The ``Errors'' Of Adult Life
often do not represent darkness or void, as they initially seem to, but rather, are occasions that create the possibility of life and freedom. Human urges and conflicts are not necessarily pathologic; instead, they reflect the movement of life as it attempts to become manifest within us. The point is to allow the conflicts to surface and become visible.
In response to the Western
proclivity for knowledge, Epstein offers wisdom
from the ancient texts of Buddhism; in response to the Western bias toward
individuation, he offers connection; in response to the emphasis on rational
mind, he offers mind-in-the-heart. In response to the warring of our cultural
dualisms, whether between mind and body, individual and community, or men and women,
he offers unity and reciprocity.
All of this becomes
possible through a ``middle way'' of nonjudgmental awareness
that avoids either ``attachment'' or ``aversion'' to any of these polarities
and, in so doing, transforms experience. Then, says Epstein, one can live in
the lion's den of life with honesty and authenticity. In sizing up the possible
relevance of Eastern mysticism to Western postindustrial cultures, it is
important to understand that both Western science and Christianity were born in
what we now call the East and that many modern problems revolve around ways in
which intellectual categories have been reshaped since then. In the emergence
of the intellectual basis of Western culture, science and values developed in
reaction to each other and, in so doing, became somewhat falsified and
alienated from the way in which people actually lived their lives.
The most extreme separation
occurred in Descartes's sharp isolation of the worlds of mind and matter.
Since then, medicine has come to view the body as a machine with parts that
could be manipulated. Personhood came to be understood as an increasingly large
and fragmented number of components and functions, and academic inquiry was
cordoned off into disciplinary ghettos. It is only with growing recognition of
the limits of the Cartesian-Newtonian framework for solving human problems, the
development of quantum mechanics, general-systems theory, and brain science,
and the increasing contact between the West and the East that these old
separations are breaking down.
In general,
Epstein's discussion is balanced, and he is aware of the paradoxical nature of his topic. In his efforts to explicate
the Buddhist worldview, however, he occasionally parodies Western psychology
and its notion of the self. Self-esteem, self-confidence, the building of a
strong self -- these are not the problem, although some of his statements could
lead readers to believe otherwise. Instead, the problem arises when selfhood
becomes the only goal. To become oneself, one must also lose oneself. In the
expression of an idea so dialectical, one statement immediately implies its
opposite.
The sweetness of the ``middle way'' is not learned easily or quickly, and fictions abound on both sides of the discussion. Plato's Socrates once wondered whether he should be a politician or a physician -- that is, whether he should try to serve the existing tastes and interests of his fellow citizens or continually work to improve their minds and souls. Going to Pieces without Falling Apart will appeal to physicians, therapists, and patients who, like Socrates, opt for the latter. Reviewed by Jeffrey Rediger, M.D., M.Div. -- Copyright 1999, The Massachusetts Medical Society. All rights reserved.
The sweetness of the ``middle way'' is not learned easily or quickly, and fictions abound on both sides of the discussion. Plato's Socrates once wondered whether he should be a politician or a physician -- that is, whether he should try to serve the existing tastes and interests of his fellow citizens or continually work to improve their minds and souls. Going to Pieces without Falling Apart will appeal to physicians, therapists, and patients who, like Socrates, opt for the latter. Reviewed by Jeffrey Rediger, M.D., M.Div. -- Copyright 1999, The Massachusetts Medical Society. All rights reserved.
An intimate guide to
self-acceptance and discovery that offers a Buddhist perspective on wholeness
within the framework of a Western understanding of self. For decades, Western
psychology has promised fulfillment through building and strengthening the ego.
We are taught that the ideal is a strong, individuated self, constructed and
reinforced over a lifetime. But Buddhist psychiatrist Mark Epstein has found a
different way. Based on the premise that the Western notion of self is deeply
flawed, Going to Pieces Without Falling Apart shows us that happiness doesn't
come from any kind of acquisitiveness, be it material or psychological.
Happiness comes from letting go.
Weaving together the accumulated
wisdom of his two worlds--Buddhism and Western psychotherapy--Epstein shows how
"the happiness that we seek depends on our ability to balance the ego's
need to do with our inherent capacity to be." He encourages us to relax
the ever-vigilant mind in order to experience the freedom that comes only from
relinquishing control.
Drawing on events in his own life and
stories from his patients, Epstein leads us through a series of intimate and
emotionally resonant chapters that explore key psychological and spiritual
experiences such as emptiness, connection, passion, and relief. Highly personal
and engaging, Going to Pieces Without Falling Apart teaches us that only
by letting go can we start on the path to a more peaceful and spiritually
satisfying life.
Combining lessons from meditation and psychotherapy, the bestselling author of "Thoughts Without a Thinker" defies the rigid Western prescription for happiness and presents an intimate guide to discovering the spiritual in the midst of everyday life.
Combining lessons from meditation and psychotherapy, the bestselling author of "Thoughts Without a Thinker" defies the rigid Western prescription for happiness and presents an intimate guide to discovering the spiritual in the midst of everyday life.
The curious but very
reasonable integration of Buddhist thought and Western psychotherapy form the
methodology behind Epstein's psychiatric practice in New York City. Writing
with an inviting ease and considerable clarity, Epstein first establishes
Buddhist fundamentals--the "wheel of life" and the "four noble
truths"--then goes on to demonstrate interconnections between these
spiritual precepts and pertinent psychological concepts, such as neurosis,
narcissism, and ego.
Epstein devotes the
book's midsection to an engaging look at
the practice and the paradox of meditation, following this up with a
summary of how therapy and meditation together may serve the individual most
effectively. Eloquent yet down-to-earth, this gem offers an exhilarating and
expansive perspective on the therapeutic process. Alice Joyce
Traditional
distinctions between matters of the mind and matters of the spirit are
increasingly being questioned, and people are searching for alternate
perspectives on these issues. Here, Epstein argues that the contemplative
traditions of the East can be extremely beneficial to patients, not just in
helping them recognize their problems, but by giving them the strength to heal.
Drawing upon his own
experience as therapist, meditator and patient,
Mark Epstein, a New York-based psychiatrist trained in classical Freudian
methods, attempts to integrate Western psychotherapy and the teachings of
Buddhism. Repressed memories, painful emotions, narcissism and destructive
energies can all be uprooted through Buddha's teaching on suffering, delusion,
wisdom and non-attachment. Epstein argues that in recognizing his or her self-created
mental suffering, a patient can overcome neurotic behaviors and even overcome a
deeply ingrained negative sense of self. ~Alice Joyce
The Spirits are increasingly being questioned, and people are searching for alternate perspectives on these issues. Here, Epstein argues that the contemplative traditions of the East can be extremely beneficial to patients, not just in helping them recognize their problems, but by giving them the strength to heal.
The Spirits are increasingly being questioned, and people are searching for alternate perspectives on these issues. Here, Epstein argues that the contemplative traditions of the East can be extremely beneficial to patients, not just in helping them recognize their problems, but by giving them the strength to heal.
Much in contemporary
transpersonal approaches is derived from Buddhist teaching because Buddhist
thought tends to be focused largely on internal experience and in this way
transcends the context of the religion per se. In this lesson we will explore
directly the Buddhist approach to psychotherapy which is simply based on the
core teachings of the Buddha. In a 6 - 8 page paper, discuss, Buddha
nature, the core ethics, mindfulness, perception and will, association, karma,
dhyana, compassion, love, wisdom and letting go.
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